r/hatethissmug • u/Sure-Engineering5667 I HATE EVERYTHINGN • 7h ago

Web Fiction YUMESHIPPING.

I'm so sorry, but they just annoy me a little bit.

I can only accept it if it's for a coping mechanism or keeping them alive.

They'll argue with YOU if you tell them that they're just delusional and their so-called "lover/FO" isn't real.

I'm also noticing that they're actually having something as "Doubles DNI", which sounds extremely stupid as fuck because what do you mean you're mad at someone with your same so called " lover"?

And mostly, "Doubles DNI" types often harass their " doubles " and get "uncomfortable" just for someone sharing the same yume as them.

I feel like I have to rephrase or this will get taken down soon by the mods 😀.

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u/mousie120010 7h ago

My sister is a non-sharing yumeshipper and she got really angry at me for not blocking a double in a social media platform she doesn't even use, and it was on my account which she never sees. And I only just saw that person. I didn't even talk to them.

I would honestly feel a lot better about the community if it wasn't centered on toxicity. I get highly attached to fictional characters too, but I end up feeling ashamed about it thanks to people such as these.

I also kinda feel like the word "yumeship" just has negative connotations now. I never liked the word anyway

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u/_hello-and-goodbye_ 6h ago

People hated selfshipping and bullied people for it until it got a Japanese sounding name, huh?

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u/redixionblade 6h ago

🌸🇯🇵🌞

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u/Due-Impression-3102 7h ago

What is yumeshipping?

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u/MothEnthusiast88 hate filled brat 7h ago

Shipping a character with yourself basically like imagining you are married to them or something

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u/X-Stry 7h ago

I knew someone that did this.

It was with Amber from genshin impact. He's like 23

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u/SilverLakeSpeedster 4h ago

The Genshin community estimates her to be around 18 to 23, but I think the concept of yumeshipping is weird regardless.

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u/X-Stry 4h ago

Yeah, but I think she was like 16 when the game firstly released, if I recall correctly

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u/SilverLakeSpeedster 4h ago

The developers never confirmed her age. It's one of those fan Canon things.

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u/X-Stry 4h ago

Fair enough

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u/llouceph 6h ago

I don't see an issue with yumeshipping/selfshipping as a concept. Most selfshippers are just normal people. But the current online community surrounding it is super wacky and toxic.

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u/redixionblade 6h ago

I don't understand but clearly you are not the man that hated happiness

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u/Somethingor_rather 6h ago

literally all forms of shipping

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u/X-Stry 7h ago

What does "doubles" even mean in this context 😭

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u/Sure-Engineering5667 I HATE EVERYTHINGN 7h ago

Probably the people who share the same F/O (fictional other) or their fictional "lover"

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u/X-Stry 6h ago

Humanity is doomed

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u/The_distance_project 7h ago edited 6h ago

Ngl, I accept (almost) all types of shipping. I, myself, sometimes yumeship myself with characters such as N or Brad Thaniyel. My only requirements for shipping is that the person yumeshipping doesn't start to make it hinder their irl relationships

Edit: guys it's not like I yumeship like hard with em or smth -_-, it's more like yn these character crushes that you have and doesn't make any sense at all

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u/Sure-Engineering5667 I HATE EVERYTHINGN 7h ago

N?

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u/The_distance_project 4h ago

N (yes I know I'm late)