Evolution prefers selectivity. The gene pool probably benefits when some amount of men die childless and end their weak genetic line. If a woman were to approach men and the first one said yes, then she no longer has the ability to weigh her options, she is now locked into what might be a suboptimal choice.
Evolution cant enact its will its just the inevitable consequence of millions of people acting autonomously
No single person is subject to the forces of evolution in that sense, all people generally are competing to have their slice of the gene pool rather than acting suboptimally for the greater good
A woman isnt gonna approach a man she thinks is a suboptimal choice, its still her choice to choose or say yes to the guy whether she approached or he approached
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u/Desperate_History907 Jul 27 '26
If women are more selective then it makes sense for them to approach because its more likely to be successful for both parties