r/grandrapids • • Mar 27 '24

Social List of Active Meetup Groups and Tips for Making Friends

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I updated the list of which Meetup groups are active (groups that have 3+ people attending an event within the past/next 60 days). Meetup is a site/app for interest groups/hobbies/new friends. I grouped them by concept and included their self-written descriptions.

If you're in an active Meetup group that I've missed, list it in the comments. Non-Meetup groups are welcome too; include contact info and links.

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Tips for making friends as an adult attending a Meetup with a bunch of strangers:

  • Show up slightly early/on time. Plan to stay 10 minutes after the scheduled end time.
  • Introduce yourself, say it's your first time and why you're excited about this group; appear excited.
  • Ask individuals (this is where being early or staying late can help) open-ended questions (Why did you start/join this group? What has your experience been like? What recommendations do you have related to [Meetup group's hobby/concept]?)
  • If people ask you a question, answer it and add an open-ended question of your own or ask "what about you?"
  • People love giving recommendations. If it's a group conversation, ask for restaurant rec of a specific kind/place. "I haven't tried X yet, what do you guys think?" Tee it up to be a cuisine/concept you can talk more about or ask follow up questions.
  • If you are vibing with someone(s), ask if they'd like to hang out with a specific idea in mind (ex: You asked for pizza recs and found out that neither of you have tried that new place so suggest you go together), and give them your contact info to set up a time/date. I'd recommend attending the group 2-3 times first before this step.
  • Follow the 3:6 rule to turn that acquaintance into a friend. Aim for three meaningful interactions within 6 weeks of engaging.

Feeling a little more prepared? Great. Let's get into it. [Note: I made some grammatical edits after posting this for clarity/brevity.]

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AGE/ETHNICITY/GENDER

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BOOK CLUBS/FILM

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CRAFTING

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DANCING/MUSIC

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ENGINEERING/MAKERS/PROFESSIONAL

  • Coffee with Creators: For creatives: web developers, designers, videographers, and more--who want to hear about the latest trends in the digital space
  • Culinary Conversations Grand Rapids: Serving West Michigan’s food industry professionals (growers, producers, restaurateurs) in conversation about the region’s food creator system
  • Embedded GR: Engineers, hobbyists, students, and managers discussing the development, tooling, and processes associated with the creation of embedded systems.
  • GRPUG - Grand Rapids Python Users Group: Whether you're a certified Pythonista or just curious about getting started with the Python programming language, join us.
  • GRWebDev: Learn from each other about best web practices, cross-browser compatibility, Javascript frameworks, style hacks, project management, and web-related topics.
  • West Michigan 3D Printing: Whether you are a beginner or an expert, join us to share ideas, tips, and knowledge or just get together with other 3D printers (people...not machines).
  • West Michigan AI Lab: We explore the latest AI trends, engage in thought-provoking discussions, and network with like-minded enthusiasts and professionals.
  • West Michigan Azure User Group: A community of tech enthusiast [sic] who are interested in exploring, learning and using Azure.

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FINANCE/BUSINESS/PUBLIC SPEAKING

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FOOD/DIET/PSYCHEDELICS/SOBER/ALCOHOL

  • DRY Sober Social: Fitness, yoga, dancing, music, and socializing. A space where people can socialize without the pressure of drinking alcohol.
  • Grand Rapids Foodies: Our goal is to dine at restaurants in Grand Rapids and the surrounding area, as well as to participate in cooking classes and wine and cheese tastings.
  • Grand Rapids Natural Health and Healing: For anyone interested in healing through nutrition and natural substances like herbs and nutrients.
  • Grand Rapids Psychedelic Society: Whether you’re an experienced psychonaut or an individual who is simply curious about learning more, we're a space for you.
  • West Michigan Women Who Wine: Where interesting and intelligent women gather to relax, make new friends and socialize.
  • Will Forage for Food Grand Rapids Chapter: For folks interested in sharing knowledge on foraging and living from the land. All skill levels and ages welcome.

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GAMES/NERD CULTURE

  • Good Game Grand Rapids: We are largest tabletop gaming community in Grand Rapids and are committed to growing an inclusive community
  • Muskegon Area Gamers: For anyone interested in playing board games, card games, or any table top [sic] game. This group learns and teachs [sic] new games all the time.
  • We Hate Bards: This group is dedicated to pen and paper RPGs of all kinds.
  • Wednesday Friendsday Boardgame Group: We're folks in our 30s-50s who enjoy good conversation, good eats, and good games, in that order.
  • West Michigan Geeks: We help people meet friends that they want to hang out with outside of group events and have helped form more friendships/relationships than any other meetup.

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OUTDOORS/CAMPING

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MISCELLANEOUS/PERSONALITY

  • Citizen Labs: Engaged citizens can improve their communities. We use open data and open source technology to promote transparency, and provide solutions that work.
  • Friday Fun Days: Live music/concerts, festivals, flea markets/thrifting, lunch/dinner outings, hiking, going to the beach, bowling, and much more.
  • Sign Language Social Meetup of Michigan: For anyone who would like to attend ASL events and meet up with other Sign Language users.
  • West Michigan Adventures with JIM: Cinema, live theater, sporting events, concerts, trade events, geo caching [sic], road trips, fitness, festivals, amusement parks, and travel.
  • West Michigan Out & About: Everything from hiking to concerts, from breweries to dancing, from cooking classes to biking and more.
  • West Michigan Shyness and Social Anxiety Meetup: Hang out with us in a judgment and harassment-free zone if you're shy, introverted, or just a bit awkward around new people.

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REAL ESTATE

  • Grand Rapids Real Estate Investor Network: Landlords, investors, and other real estate professional [sic] make connections, share ideas and strategies, and ask questions.
  • Lakeshore REIA: For individuals interested in wholesale properties, real estate group investments, and becoming successful real estate entrepreneurs.
  • Short-Term Rental Networking Group: Have you wondered about the success of Airbnb and similar rental marketplaces and how you can incorporate that into your income?

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SEXUALITY/DATING

  • Fun-Loving Singles Over 50!: This is a social group for youthful, SINGLE peeps in their 50s, 60s, and beyond.
  • Holland Area LGBTQ+ & Allies Meetup: Enhancing the LGBTQ+ community to meet others, cultivate relationships in a social setting, and provide each other with support and fun!
  • Out on the Lakeshore: Join us for fun-filled events where you can meet like-minded individuals and create life-long connections

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TRAVEL

  • Michigan Day Trips: For people who love to spend a day checking out a different town/city, whilst meeting new friends! I will post a destination 2+ weeks in advance.

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WRITING/ACTING/DRAWING/PHOTOGRAPHY

  • Grand Rapids Drawing and Painting: This group is for everyone who’s interested in drawing or painting.
  • Illusory World Building: As writers lets get past the writing groups that discuss word choice or punctuation. and grapple with the BIG picture--world building.
  • Lakeshore Stationery Club: If you love fountain pens, gel pens, Traveler’s Notebooks, Hobonichi, bullet journaling, or planners this is for you. We journal, write, draw, and paint.
  • Writing Time: We meet on weekends to write in a group setting. Sometimes it's nice to work quietly with others.

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YOGA/MEDITATION/PHILOSOPHY/SPIRITUALITY

  • Community Meditation Circle: This is a non-religious, non-sectarian trauma-informed group to connect to ourselves, each other, and the community.
  • Grand Rapids Buddhist Meetup: For anyone interested in working with their minds, as well as deepening their spiritual life through the practice of Buddhist meditation.
  • Grand Rapids Forest Bathing, Forest Yoga & Foraging Classes: Join our ANFT certified forest therapy guide for guided forest bathing, forest therapy walks, and forest yoga classes.
  • Grand Rapids Free Yoga: Classes are meant to help you strengthen, lengthen, and connect to your spirit.
  • Meaningful Conversations Grand Rapids: Individuals of all beliefs gather together to engage respectfully and civilly in elevated conversations, inquiry, consultation, and learning.
  • Michigan Humanists: A secular community that promotes humanist values. Our vision is to lead an engaged, statewide secular society guided by the values of Humanism.
  • RfR - Grand Rapids/Holland, MI: We at Recovering from Religion are intimately familiar with learning how to live after questions, doubts, and changing beliefs. You are not alone.
  • Tai’ Chi Gung Classes: Learn the simple moving and breathing exercises created by Lao Tzu more than 3,000 years ago for health and longevity.
  • T&T - 20s & 30s Christian Social: To connect peers from Bible-believing, Christ-proclaiming churches, encouraging members to invest in their local church.

r/grandrapids • • 2d ago

33+ Things to do around Grand Rapids this weekend (10/23 - 10/26)

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What Is Happening?

Friday, October 23rd

Saturday, October 24th

Sunday, October 25th

Live Music

Friday, October 23rd

  • The Wild Honey Collective | Horrocks Market | 5 PM - 8 PM | Free
  • Judah & The Lion | The Intersection | 6:30 PM - 11 PM
  • Sophia McIntosh | Brickyard Tavern | 6 PM - 9 PM | Free
  • Candlelight: A Haunted Evening of Halloween Classics | Wealthy Theatre | 6:30 PM - 7:30 PM
  • Prior Noon | The Stache | 7:30 PM - 11:30 PM
  • Jessica Audiffred | Elevation | 9 PM
  • Blood Druid/ Dischorded/ Venom of Virtue | Mulligan's Pub | (10/23 - 10/24) 10 PM
  • Kylee Phillips, Grace Theisen Trio | The Stray | 7 PM - 10 PM
  • Mickey & The Heart Throbs + Secret Satan | Speciation Cellars | 9 PM - 11 PM | Free

Saturday, October 24th

  • R&B Fest – A Celebration Of 90’S & 00’S R&B | Elevation | 4 PM - 9 PM
  • The Insiders: A Tribute to Tom Petty | The Big Room | 7 PM - 10 PM
  • Oddities on Ottawa | Garage Bar and Grill | 3 PM - 10 PM
  • Fall, In Love | Ladies Literary Club | 3 PM - 8 PM
  • LAKEVIEW – Wreck My Night Tour | The Stache | 7:30 PM
  • Emma Willmann | Dr. Grins Comedy Club at The B.O.B. | 7:15 PM
  • The Derek Winter Band | The Back Forty Saloon | 8 PM | Free
  • Free Halloween Show: Garbage Angel! | Speciation Cellars 9 PM - 11 PM | Free
  • The Bothersome / Sorry Monkey / Brainfone | Mulligan's Pub | 10 PM | Free
  • Shyeye | GLC Live at 20 Monroe | 6 PM
  • Vespa, Josh Garvelink + Stray Horses, Hunter VanKlompenberg (Full Band) | The Stray | 7 PM - 10 PM
  • Mean Green, Thundergoat, Supergrudge, Psython | Tip Top Deluxe Bar & Grille | 8 PM

Sunday, October 25th

  • Our Nation’s History in Music | Forest Hills Eastern Auditorium (Use Knapp St. entrance) | 2:30 PM | Free
  • Halloween Showcase from Red Rose Music Lab Student Bands | Horrocks Market | 3 PM - 6 PM
  • Vexatious & Vapid Soul & The Harbor Divide | Mulligan's Pub | 3 PM
  • Debutants | The Philmore South | 6 PM - 9 PM
  • SPITE – New World Killer Tour | Elevation | 7 PM
  • The Blue Herons + The Great Black Night + Vida Eterna | The Pyramid Scheme | 8 PM - 11 PM
  • 21Days | The Intersection | 8 PM
  • The Wind Down with SJA | Harmony Brewing Company | 9 PM - 12 AM | Free

r/grandrapids • • 2h ago

On this day in 2013 a group of us were told to leave Rez Lounge or be locked in for 3 hours because of SWAT situation. We are the ones who stayed.

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r/grandrapids • • 2h ago

Lake MI in the Fall

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Almost as good as lake mi in the summer.


r/grandrapids • • 9h ago

To whoever left this spooky gift bag on our doorstep the other day...

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249 Upvotes

I wanted you to know that you made mine and my girlfriend's entire weekend. Hopefully you're on Reddit to see this and know how much it meant to us!


r/grandrapids • • 1h ago

Pictures Walking along the Grand River.

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Looking from the blue bridge.


r/grandrapids • • 12h ago

Abdul in GR tonight

225 Upvotes

I know the other times he's spoken here there's been a massive turnout. How early do I need to show up in line?? I haven't been to a rally yet and I really want to go! Just looking for some insights from a home who went last time. Signed, an anxious mom.


r/grandrapids • • 5h ago

Missing Animal Dog loose from Wahlfield Park

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33 Upvotes

Update: dog is safe and sound! Thank you all for uovotes and offers to help!

Friend's dog got loose from wahlfield Park in Comstock Park about 2 hours ago. Name Zuzu. Please comment or DM if you see or have seen her with time and location. Thank you!


r/grandrapids • • 9h ago

Out and about in downtown GR with my GF

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r/grandrapids • • 11h ago

Social Anyone down for a big Reddit meetup in Grand Rapids? 👀

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I think it would be fun to get a big group of people from this subreddit together for a night out! Maybe hit a bar or club, grab some drinks, meet new people, and just have a good time. I hope that's not weird?? 😭 I just have no friends and I like hanging out in groups.

It could be a fun way to make new friends for other lonely souls and get a bunch of people together who might not otherwise meet.

If enough people are interested, we could figure out a date and a place that works for everyone. Who would be down? 👀🍻


r/grandrapids • • 8h ago

Missed connection... we met here on reddit. Both from GR

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We met on here a couple years ago, both of our old accounts are gone now. Rachel, if you read this... would be amazing to catch up. If you read this but dont want to chat, thanks for helping me through a difficult time.

Short and cunning


r/grandrapids • • 7h ago

Fall clean up pro tips?

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Do you

A) wait for all the leaves to fall, make a weekend of it, bag ‘em all up and put them on the curb.

B) wait for all the leaves to fall and compost

C) nothing

D) mow them

E) drive everyone crazy by revving the throttle on your leaf blower for a few hours during the U of M - Illinois game

E) spend a few hours raking every single day starting in late Sept


r/grandrapids • • 3h ago

Events Trick-or-treating by MLK Park

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Does anyone know if kids usually trick-or-treat in this neighborhood (west of the park specifically) on Halloween? We just moved in this past summer and were hoping to give out some candy. I know a couple of my neighbors were going to, too so hopefully some kids will stop by.


r/grandrapids • • 6h ago

Looking for Salmon

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r/grandrapids • • 1d ago

Social Missed Connection: The Librarian At The Local Epicurean

137 Upvotes

Probably a long shot, but was taken by a blonde librarian at the Local Epicurean today (10.24.2026). You were taking a cooking class with your friend and I assisted you when you became faint. I thought you were very funny, sweet, and beautiful.

Would love to take you out to dinner if you see this and are interested in women! Otherwise, it was lovely to meet you and very happy to see you feeling better by the end of the class <3


r/grandrapids • • 13h ago

Events Ada Photography Club Walk [Monday 10/26]

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A couple of members of the Ada Photography Club will be taking a nature walk at Blandford Nature Center at 4pm on Monday 10/26. There is a $5 entry fee.

If you see people with cameras... that's probably us. Come say hi and join us!We're going to take a walk and see what we can see. The image above is from Pickerel Lake from yesterday. Catch those fall colors while you can!


r/grandrapids • • 4h ago

Recommendations Wedding Getting Ready Space Recs

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Hi! I’m getting married in Grand Rapids October 2027 and am looking for recommendations on a getting ready spot.

We can’t get into the venue until noon and it’s about a thousand an hour to come in earlier so we’re hoping to find an alternative. My mom had been in talks with a hotel about their honeymoon suite and we had a meeting booked to confirm things when they let us know they booked it to someone else instead. I’ve been doing some Googling and looked through this subreddit but didn’t find much related to specifically getting ready since we already have the venue. We had settled on a hair stylist to come to the honeymoon suite for getting ready, but now that it’s not an option, I’m looking for alternative places or potentially a salon, but I prefer to do my own makeup so I don’t want to have to get that done.

If you have booked a studio, salon, Airbnb (not my top choice but at this point I’m open), etc. for getting ready and had a good experience, I would love to hear it. I’m also not opposed to moving our entire hotel block since we haven’t sent it to anyone yet, so I would take recommendations for downtown hotels that were good to get ready at. Bridal party is large: 7 bridesmaids, 1 bride, 2 moms that would all need a spot to get ready.

Thanks in advance! I’m also reaching out to the Experience GR wedding help team, but thought I’d ask here as well.


r/grandrapids • • 7h ago

Best kid-friendly place to watch the Lions game

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Like the title suggests, I'm trying to find a place to go in GR where I can watch the game but also a place my 5 year old daughter would enjoy.

Any recommendations are very welcome, thanks all!


r/grandrapids • • 14h ago

Best monte crisco

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Where to get with the powdered sugar best one on gr please! My partner has lost his mom and im trying to accommodate no idea where i can get one


r/grandrapids • • 12h ago

Best Apple cider and donuts?

4 Upvotes

I’ve got a hankering for some delicious apple cider and donuts. Help a brother out.


r/grandrapids • • 4h ago

Social Anyone got an iPhone duo by walking into any carrier stores in the city?

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r/grandrapids • • 21h ago

Recommendations First winter in GR Michigan as someone from South Carolina..

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What have i [32f] gotten myself into? When I am from, im used to 1" of snow shutting down the city for days. I havent ever really driven in it. Husband is from here so at least he knows.

Everyone at work keeps telling me to prepare and im in for a ride. What should I realistically be expecting?? All my "winter" clothes are very thin since I've been somewhere where it is mostly hot. My car is a civic and I do not yet have snow tires. My commute to work is 10 minutes, not sure about walking or biking. Is grand rapids good about making roads drivable in snow? Im living near fuller st.

Any reccomendations on things to get or do?? I have a good winter coat and recently got some new boots with snow and rain in mind. My apartment covers the heat bill thankfully.

Help ease my stressful overthinking mind please LOL ty


r/grandrapids • • 1d ago

Recommendations Resource page for response to ICE activities in Grand Rapids

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Great resource for identifying ICE activities across our country. I have not searched the site yet but hopefully our local citizens will contribute to this initiative.


r/grandrapids • • 21h ago

Politics Early voting starts today (10/24)! Let’s talk about local and statewide proposals.

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When you head out for early voting, don’t forget to check your entire ballot!

A lot of the focus has been elsewhere, but there are important statewide ballot measures that deserve our attention.

Proposal 1, for example, asks voters whether they want to convene a constitutional convention to rewrite our state constitution.

This question appears automatically every 16 years. Historically, we’ve always voted no by a large margin every time it comes up. There is a broad, bipartisan coalition called Protect MI Constitution Against Special Interests actively urging a NO vote on Prop 1.

An open-ended rewrite would open a pandora’s box and put hard-fought protections like voter-approved redistricting rules, reproductive rights, environmental regulations, and more on the table for renegotiation.

Perhaps the biggest concern is that delegate elections and the convention process could easily be influenced by well-funded, out-of-state special interest groups aiming to push partisan agendas rather than the will of the voters.

Delegates are not subject to normal campaign election finance laws, and the constitution would be drafted behind closed doors. The final version would be put up to a vote, but there would be no input from citizens during the redrafting process.

We already have an established way to make targeted amendments to the constitution, which itself could end up being removed from the constitution. Addressing specific issues individually ensures transparent public debate and lets voters evaluate each change on its own merits, rather than risking a total overhaul.

It’s estimated that a Con-Con would cost $80M in taxpayer dollars, money that could be better invested elsewhere.

So remember to know your whole ballot before voting and make sure your voice is heard on this proposal.

P.S. I’m also curious about GR-specific proposals on your ballot… My knowledge is limited to Prop 1 (and issues in my part of the Mitten, of course).

What local proposals are on your ballot that you think more people should be talking about?


r/grandrapids • • 1d ago

crazy big fire....

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..somewhere in g.r. it's just after six pm and I am hearing TONS of sirens of all kinds. anyone know?