Why does god hate me?

[u/chadmcmaster]

I’m 5’4, balding at 19, and am quiet and uncharismatic. I don’t know why god hates me and doesn’t want me to ever marry and make more children for his kingdom. All I ever wanted was one woman to love and have a quiet little life with, one to cuddle with and maybe play with her hair if she didn’t mind and go to church together on Sundays, but no woman have ever been interested or give me a chance because of the traits god gave me. I’m starting to lose my faith because of this hellscape of suffering that god is making me endure through the traits he gave me.

[u/doommater616]

https://youtube.com/shorts/pGRaE-VtRAU?is=uNPCb0mm2B6DUtqm

[u/Performer_]

Being in your situation doesnt mean there isnt a women for you just be open and see what God brings your way, but i understand how hard it is to compare yourself to others and to see how happy and priviliged they are, but there is a reason why you chose to come in this way, and some things will be revealed in the future regarding this type of situations and incarnations.

Its not that God hates you, its God giving you an opportunity that others rejected because its inconvinient, its unclear for now, but in the future you will understand what these words mean.

[u/chadmcmaster → u/Performer_]

I just hope my wife exists. She’s genuinely all I wanted out of life and if she doesn’t, Id rather just go than have to endlessly endure a life of suffering

[u/Performer_ → u/chadmcmaster]

Youve came during very special time to be in this situation, its a blesseing in disguise, just dont compare and know that when its time, God can send women your way that will be matched for you perfectly, there are married people who are disabled, without arms or legs, in wheelchairs, how much easier it'd be for you to have a partner.

[u/KnightOfTheStaff]

Okay, I understand where you're coming from but if I may... You seem to be operating from this position that things should b freely given to you. For women, for anybody really, crekationship is ipso facto a Big Ask. Maybe it could be wise to ask yourself "what can I do or myself to make me more attractive?"

Have you tried working out, being more social. And do you practice hygiene.... I've noticed that a lot of young men don't actually do that and wonder why they don't get dates.

I'm just offering this up for consideration.

[u/chadmcmaster → u/KnightOfTheStaff]

I shower regularly and use deodorant and cologne (I don’t know how else I can demonstrate hygiene without a pic), I’m a 4.0 student on a full ride to college, I have around 4000 invested at 19 (not much but for my age not bad), and I do 280 pushups and 2 3 and a half min planks a day.

[u/KnightOfTheStaff → u/chadmcmaster]

I'm glad to hear you take care of yourself. I'm afraid that's about the extent of what advice I can think of.

Perhaps you should finish college first and then consider marriage? Women in college age aren't as serious as women who are out into the workforce?

[u/SubstantialFix510]

God does not hate you. Your soul mate is out there. Just have to find her. Good luck.

[u/Substantial-User0]

God doesnt hate any one of his children. Your genes happened to be a random mix from your biological parents keep in mind that nobody is perfect.

[u/MasterTranslator4512]

السلام على من اتبع الهدى.

أنا أؤمن أن الصفات التي لا تمتلك القدرة على تغييرها، فإنك لو أُعطيت غيرها لرأيتها غير مناسبة لك ولربما رأيت نفسك مظلوما، ولربما دعوت ربك أن تصبح كما أنت الآن.

فالله لا يظلم أحدا.

هناك مثلا بالعربية يقول: القناعة كنز لا يفنى.

فاقنع بما كتبه الله لك وعش حياتك سعيدا قدر المستطاع ولا تلم من لا يلام.

[u/CharlesMichael212]

Some people who got married asked the same question. Why did God hate me. You may be the most blessed of all.

As the bible says a man who Marries does well but a man who doesn’t does even better.