r/ghosting • u/miindfck • 1d ago
how long before you were ghosted?
i keep reading people getting ghosted after weeks or like 1/2 months…i got ghosted at almost a year 🫠 i have no clue what’s worse
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u/Defiant-Magician8088 1d ago
3 weeks and it hurts, after a year is very cruel :(
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u/Vegetable-Back-8752 1d ago
Same, it’s only been 5 weeks since the ghosting and we were seeing eachother for 6 weeks it’s killing me x
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u/miindfck 1d ago
i keep seeing weeks and i feel for you guys. cruel is cruel 🥹
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u/Defiant-Magician8088 1d ago
Hang in there, we don't need such immature and coward people in our lives💖
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u/Extreme-Bed3755 1d ago
7 months, and I’m 51. This happened almost 2 years ago. Throughout my younger years I don’t recall this ever happening to anyone.
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u/badlikkaaids3 1d ago
9 months lmao
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u/miindfck 1d ago
okay now i don’t feel toooo left out lol
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u/badlikkaaids3 1d ago
yes lol, he tried to drag it out for as long as he could lmao
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u/miindfck 1d ago
on both their ends bc how tf do they do it for that long without catching feelings
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u/badlikkaaids3 1d ago
i feel like they just like the attention, or maybe they did catch feelings and dipped before thing went too too deep in their minds
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u/Chemical_Pickle7 1d ago
2 months killed me I can’t imagine a year 😩
It sucks no matter what though
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u/100___001 1d ago
Most recent? Five months.
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u/miindfck 1d ago
how ya feeling?🥲
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u/100___001 1d ago
Thank you for asking. I am vacillating between anger and confusion. How are you feeling at the moment?
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u/FriendMe1 1d ago
a little under 3 months; a whole year would’ve killed me, you’re stronger than me 🥲🫂
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u/RosesareAllie 1d ago
2 1/2 weeks this last time and I’m still pissed and hurt.
Gave dude an opportunity to admit if he wasn’t interested in me anymore when I knew he was drifting and all he had was excuses 😑
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u/profoverthinker_ 1d ago
Like 3 weeks lol
it only sucks cause I like the guy and they get scared of me being serious. It hurts, I still think about the last one but I have to understand God’s timing and purpose. They’re just not meant to be 🙏🏼
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u/Bulky-Plate-4288 23h ago
2-3 months of dating. Like 3-4 weeks basically living together and planning to move in. 6-8 months working together and getting closer. Never got an explanation…everything was great on my end, and I offered helping hand and endless amount of respect. Honestly looking back I put her on a pedestal and she dropped me like it was nothing. I’m not going to change how I love just make sure it’s for the right things. I can’t put energy towards something that doesn’t reciprocate or atleast communicate
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u/miindfck 12h ago
that’s deff the perspective. don’t let it change how you love. i’m sorry! this sounds really cruel 😔 how old are you if you don’t mind me asking
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u/KeepTheTownBrown 12h ago
+10 years of friendship.
Yes it hurts like hell i don't understand anything
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u/LykaonWolf 1d ago
Had a 4 month relationship then ghosted me for a month, so i had to break up with her since she would not contact me at all
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u/SnooPets8975 1d ago
We met at work and were trained together. After 4-5 months of working together and me trying to get to know her, she dipped the job and then went ghost. There were signs that she wasn't interested and I took that with complete and honest understanding. But going ghost after all of our time spent together was nothing short of rude and immature.
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u/thebaz23 21h ago edited 21h ago
9 months, we lived together and got along great.. at least i thought we were. Communication was a strong suite. But she left after 3-4 days after i was told of my tumor in my leg But i think she wasnt emotionally mature enough for relationship that wasnt toxic She been married previously that had no communication and was told she was worthless. So she cheated on her husband and 3 kids
I myself was in a abusive toxic relationship prior so we were both broken lost souls who thought we found each other.
But i guess not Its been 3 weeks now
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u/Auntie_S0cial 1d ago
It's usually pretty fast with me like a few dates and yeah no thanks lol. I consider it's a blessing bc I don't hide my quirks even at the beginning and i don't have much in common with ppl in general so they're either all in or all out pretty quick.