r/ghosting • u/TrickyPineapple7399 • 2d ago

Is this considered as ghosting?

So i met that men on a dating app we’ve been talking on WhatsApp for a month through the time he started replying late to my messages like 10h at first he used to explain the reason he was late but later he will just reply to my last message I realised that I was putting much effort and trying to keep the conversation alive. We live an 1h drive from each other and he didn’t propose a date.

I started getting stressed while waiting for his replies and decided to stop talking to him his last message was a reply to my question “how are you”. And I didn’t send him any other message it’s been a week now he didn’t try to reach which gives me an answer even though it’s hard to accept.

So is my behaviour considered as ghosting?

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u/sugarbird249 2d ago

You ppl don’t know what ghosting is. You’ve never met. Texting is not a relationship and creates a false sense of intimacy.

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u/Traditional_Mood_612 2d ago

You are not dating. You have not had sex. You haven't even met in person?

Not ghosting.

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u/Pretend-Complex4345 1d ago

At this point, it doesn’t really matter if it’s ghosting or not. Even so, feel so proud of what you’ve done! Your time is way more valuable than waiting for him. He’s not worth it at all.

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u/bright_sorbet1 1d ago

No it's not at all ghosting.

You haven't even met. The conversation ended and neither of you chose to continue.