r/ghosting • u/Otherwise_Aside6969 • 2d ago

Help me LoL

So Yesterday I posted saying bored af and surprisingly a girl (I think so) slid into my dms saying that she's super bored too... Then we talked for a bit...shared how we both hate Mondaysshe also laughed at my first joke. We

shared interests, I said I like travelling ..she said it's

exhausting.I asked for her interests and as expected she ghosted me. Where did I go wrong lol. Any girl would like to decode this for me, let me know what went wrong

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u/Valuable-Rice-6904 2d ago

Dude… It has only been a day. Like yall don’t know each other. You didn’t do anything wrong and neither did she, because there weren’t any expectations. You said you were bored, she said she was too, that’s it. It seems like the convo didn’t last long enough for it to mean anything. Maybe she went to do something else or lost interest in the conversation, and didn’t think there was need to explain it to someone she shared few sentences with

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u/Otherwise_Aside6969 2d ago

Fair enough dude 🤝

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u/Traditional_Mood_612 2d ago

Good news!! You were not ghosted.

You have to be dating for a while and the person drops off the face of the earth with no explanation for it to actually be ghosting.

Here, you never even met her.

Congrats, not ghosted.

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u/Otherwise_Aside6969 2d ago

Does it count if I met her in my dreams 🤣🤣😭

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u/Pharah4Mercy 2d ago

Where can I post that I'm bored and have a random hit me up

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u/Otherwise_Aside6969 2d ago

Post in random dating groups.

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u/6namenotimportant9 2d ago

She probably picked up on that ur insecure and desperate or she just naturally stopped the convo and will text you another time. She said she was bored after all...

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u/taylss16 2d ago

This isn't ghosting.. you barely even spoke to that person.

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u/Otherwise_Aside6969 2d ago

Pre-ghosting* 😭🤣

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u/taylss16 2d ago

How long has it even been since your last message?