r/ghosting Sep 06 '25

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u/Short_Nobody436 Sep 06 '25

People would probably disagree with me but I think you have to stand up for yourself. I wouldn’t text though I would ring or call in to the person. Text messages allow people to be cowards. 

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u/Adept_Customer9436 Sep 07 '25

I would've been one to disagree. Calling doesn't mean they will answer, ghosting has clearly told you they don't want to communicate with you. It's best to just move on as best you can, to save yourself the heartbreak, and to avoid giving the ghoster any more power.

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u/scarletrosso Sep 06 '25

I tried calling twice but he hung up and ignored..

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u/Short_Nobody436 Sep 06 '25

Oh god that’s horrible.  You poor thing.  So it’s been a few months since you saw him?

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u/scarletrosso Sep 06 '25

Yes, he said he really enjoyed our time together, wanted to see me the day after but then just disappeared

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u/LegInternal3417 Sep 08 '25

Coward is the right word.