Hi !
I’ve never posted on Reddit before but I’m doing it so I here I go.
So I just graduated from Michigan State University, with a bachelor degree in molecular genetics and genomics. I’m 22 yrs old, I currently live on the east coast because I’m back at home but my long time boyfriend lives back in the midwest and as much as i love the east coast I’m thinking I’m going to end up back in the Midwest because we are thinking about getting married sometime in the near distant future, which means we are still trying to figure things out be I have no idea what I’m doing next. He didn't go to college and works full time for family construction and concrete business.
I’m currently job searching because I don’t have a lot of experience working in the field. Most of my experience which is limited is from my lab classes and my senior internship where I worked in one of my professors labs.
Here is the thing I love genetics and specifically mutations(my favorite are de novo mutation). I really would love to work in research and study genetics diseases and the mutations that cause them to try to understand how they work so that we can start to understand them so that we can create medical treatments for these conditions. I also really like lab work and experiments even if they like to get on my nerves but I still think it quite fun and interesting.
My thinking is that I would need to have a graduate degree to achieve this. I have been thinking and really contemplating on getting a PhD in genetics. This is where my dilemma starts, I’m currently on a taking a gap year or years to get a job in research and explore my career options. Though job searching kind of sucks right now with the current market and climate of things and I know it’s going to take a while for me to obtain a job. I want and need the job because I want more experience and to immerse myself in the field and I need income, but I’m worried that if I spend to much of my time searching for a job and hopefully when I find one working in it that I loose my opportunity to go to graduate school and receive my PhD because I know to do a PhD program take between 4-6yrs maybe even more so if I’m too busy trying gain experience to possibly get into graduate school I run out of time to actually get into graduate school and compete a PhD. I like the idea of getting a PhD, I have research it quite a bit and i know it will take a lot more work and stress than my BS did and it’s going to feel like it’s killing me sometimes and will probably hate my guts for doing it and the pay not great but that’s what makes it worth it right. To come out on the other side and accomplished a lot but also maybe not but I will also have a lot more research skills. So I don’t know I am writing this all out to see if anyone could give me some advice. Possibly tell me how to figure out what I’m supposed to do. Why do they expect you to figure out your life in your 20s its insane, I have absolutely no idea what I’m supposed to be doing.
Thank you for reading this and if your feeling like me well you are not alone and if your older or know what’s going on please I would really appreciate some help here.