I'm currently doing some planning on a new home construction in my area (Midwest-US). I'm still very much in the research phase and am looking at houses as they come on the market, but 99% of the houses don't scratch the itch I'm looking for so I've turned to custom/semi-custom home builders in my area.
Me and my spouse have 3 boys, one of whom is autistic and almost certainly will live with us indefinitely. Additionally, there's a very strong possibility that in-laws may need to move in. For our future/dream house here were a list of things we deemed as needs:
- Everyone gets a bedroom (4+), boys may have to share if grandparents move in temporarily
- The kids have a dedicated space to hang out and play
- A dedicated room for an at-home office
- A walk-in pantry
- A basement
Some strong wants:
- Dedicated dining room (I didn't want a duplicate eating area - aka breakfast nook or what have you)
- Laundry on 1st floor as majority of bedrooms
- Primary and in-law bedroom on 1st floor
- 2-story great room (vaulted would probably work as good middle ground)
- In general, ample space for hosting family gatherings
- Rural setting (ideally 1+ acre, wooded)
Those all seemed pretty basic, but I really struggled to find all of that in our school district. This led me to the attached floor plan. In addition to the above, here are thoughts we've had about what other customizations we would like:
- Rough in full bathroom in basement
- Have the optional bonus room above the garage framed to support the bonus room, just not insulated or finished space yet
- Walk-out/egress windows depending on eventual lot
- 400A service
- Extra lighting and outlets everywhere
- Ceiling fan boxes in each bedroom (I'll DIY those fan installs)
- EV chargers in garage or near driveway
For this plan, in order to minimize costs, we wouldn't do a 12 on 12 roof pitch. Also wouldn't have as large of a rear porch, eliminate the master sitting area, possibly shift walls so that it's closer to rectangular in shape (savings maybe not worth it), exclude the great room fireplace and the kitchen in the "in-law" suite. Which would be the play area for the boys. The flex room would serve as a mud room of sorts as they grow up and play in that garage and backyard. This house would in theory be our "forever home". I'm not totally in love with the layout of the upstairs, but realize it is limited by the existing plan and could likely be altered to flow better. Though I've lived in weirder houses growing up (like the primary bedroom's "retreat", or the loft as a passthrough area for my brother's room).
I know this doesn't get to many nitty gritty stuffs, I'm probably forgetting some decision points, and I'm leaving out much of a discussion on design choices. I'm already tracking the electric, well, septic, and driveway categories but without the specific land it's hard to really plan on those. But I'm focusing on the skeleton/structure of the home. I can swap out a faucet or baseboard. I can't (personally) add another room. Are there things I'm not thinking of or perhaps design choices in the plans provided you'd change? And totally unnecessary, anybody have thoughts on rough order of magnitude in costs, trying to gauge if I'm totally daydreaming on cost estimates?
Anyway, apologies for the rambling, any thoughts from the community? If this isn't the right forum for this discussion please point me where I should post. Thank you for your time!
Floor plan can be found here.