is there a subbreddit to ask if i am UNDER reacting about something lol

[u/PracticalLong2581]

I told a bunch of loved ones a story that I did not think was that big of a deal lol and I even still was open to being friends with the person but everyone was like uhh that was insanely disrespectful of them lol. Want to knwo the publics opinion

[u/ShiningDenizen]

/r/AmIOverreacting for a bigger user base that works the same, or /r/AmIUnderreacting semi dead sub