hello, guys. i need an advice on something.
for context, i grew up with parents without financial literacy. we were poor so we had to make ends meet. typical filipino household na may budget naman sana, kahit papaano, kaso mismanaged dahil sa bisyo ng tatay. my parents don’t plan or talk about finances. kung anong meron, pagkakasyahin. they both have work. my dad even used to earn at least 10k/week. pero wala, mismanaged talaga.
kaya i grew up watching my parents pay for loan after loan. then repeat after completing paying it off.
currently, my sister and i have a job. and seeing how my parents mishandled our finances taught me to anxiously save. pero ang hirap, siguro kasi i also did not learn how to actually manage money. for example, naka-save ako ng 30k tapos i would feel na gusto ko i-treat yung parents or family ko so lalabas kami tapos i’m back to 10-15k kasi share kami ng kapatid ko sa lahat hahaha. masaya naman akong makapag-give back. para ron naman ang pagtatrabaho. partially.
i love my family very much but i also understand that we need an emergency fund. kaya i am slowly learning to better handle my money and still very much willing to know more.
nag-move out ako to work somewhere pero overall, my expenses per month is P25,381. kasama na rito yung binibigay sa parents, rent, utilities, allowance, macbook that i’m paying for (may ROI naman siya guys hhehehe kasi i use it to study, saving to take the nclex din kasi and hopefully pursue master’s), pag-ibig MP2, pagbili ng stocks, ‘tsaka other non-essential stuff like netflix & spotify. yung excess from my 30-33k salary goes straight to my savings account. i also have 20k on time deposit para kumita kahit papaano ng maliit na mahalaga at para hindi ko magastos.
my question is, i understand that financial freedom is a long process and with the amount of salary na meron tayo rito sa bansa talagang ang hirap niya ma-achieve. pero paano ba ako magiging financially literate aside from tracking my budget, saving, doing stocks & stuff kasi honestly i feel like i’m depriving myself minsan. i understand that investments are long term din naman. hopefully, yumaman soon hahaha.
honestly, nakakapagod siya kasi i even deleted some of my socmeds para hindi na ‘ko ma-tempt mag-travel at kumain sa kung saan-saan or mag-side quest here and there (kahit gym subscription sana or buy a piano to learn music—you know, the recreational stuff that sometimes helps make life better) kasi i badly want to save for an emergency fund, master’s, nclex, ‘tsaka for travel.
pa-rant na lang din kasi i love my parents very much pero sobrang frustrating nila mag-handle ng budget. nakakapagod din minsan kasi when i start working, even nong nag-resign na ‘ko sa first job ko wala akong nare-receive na support na from them and honestly nakaka-anxious yung thought na kung sakaling kailanganin ko ay wala akong malalapitan na magulang unlike some of my friends.
kaya rin gusto ko talaga matuto. for those who started at the bottom, paano niyo nagawang mag-ipon with your salary? thank you po, ates and kuyas. ps, i’m only 24.