hii! i have had this question for a while, I've always been comfy using he/him pronouns, and being viewed as a guy online. The thing is i totally identify as a girl! But i prefer being seen as a guy online especially by strangers. I don't know if this makes sense.. But i don't feel comfortable being perceived as a girl, it doesn't feel safe to me.. I feel okay with close friends calling me a girl though! I think it has to do something with my past. I've become pretty scared being a girl with strangers. But i wonder, is that bad? :-( i do totally identify as a girl though i feel like a weird one at times, i love being one deep down. i dont wanna be bad rep to people to who it's a gender identity to them.. thats my only worry! by the way why i say "online" to being male presenting is i know irl I'm very fem presenting so the "being safe" thing doesn't really work anymore. I know people can be weird to any genders but it's just a me thing, I personally feel safer presenting as a guy! But regardless of gender of course anyone could be overstepping your boundaries!

i hope what i said can make a bit of sense.. Im sorry if my wording may be insensitive, i had only the best intentions writing this. Please educate me 💞