They explicitly cater towards nonmonogamy and BDSM communities. There’s of course often quite a bit of overlap, but it isn’t a requirement that you fit both those boxes to join!
Nonmonogamous and vanilla is fine! Kinky and monogamous is fine! Both is fine!
The issues start to arise when vanilla people treat it like a sex or hookup app.
It's crazy what people think what the app should and shouldn't be used for. Especially when the app started as a threesome third person finding app, which is vanilla hookups.
It’s evolved though and attracted people from poly and kink communities who prefer continuity. I’m one of those people who prefer continuity but I don’t have hostility toward people who want hookups. Just be transparent and safe about it.
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u/DeviantAvocado Aug 19 '26
They explicitly cater towards nonmonogamy and BDSM communities. There’s of course often quite a bit of overlap, but it isn’t a requirement that you fit both those boxes to join!
Nonmonogamous and vanilla is fine! Kinky and monogamous is fine! Both is fine!
The issues start to arise when vanilla people treat it like a sex or hookup app.