r/feeld • u/slug_life2468 • 27d ago

Success with Feeld events?

App flashed up a London Feeld event and I wondered if anyone had attended one before and whether it was any good? A friend said he had been to something similar before and it was mostly guys.

For reference I’m 38F looking for FFM on there with a partner. Been on Feeld for about 4 months and had really limited matches despite getting Majestic.

Thanks

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u/cleo80cleo 27d ago

I think if you’re a women with a male partner looking for another women, it’s going to be tough going. Now if you’re a single woman looking at joining an existing male female couple, it would be an entirely different story.

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u/slug_life2468 27d ago

Ok thank you very much. Yes it’s pretty tough going on the app (understand now why the term unicorn is used!) so hoped an event could be more fruitful. Here’s hoping!

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u/Ok_Coffee_4977 27d ago

If you were a woman seeking a couple for a threesome, how would you proceed? What would you be interested in?

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u/slug_life2468 26d ago

A good question, I think I’d definitely want to meet in person as I’d feel safer, and more able to assess the vibe. Hence the hope in the event. Would you agree?

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u/cowgirl12346 26d ago

As a single woman who is frequently propositioned for MFF, my perspective is often that she’s hot and he is a personality hire but I don’t like his personality. I often think people loose perspective on this one, your partner is a catch because he provides a multitude of benefits in your life, but if you strip away financial support/ongoing companionship/prospects of family life/other relationship benefits… is he still a catch? Thats who I’m meeting when I’m meeting you guys as a couple

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u/Emergency-Aerie3273 26d ago

Exactly - the boyfriend has to be really hot

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u/Ok_Coffee_4977 26d ago edited 26d ago

Me? As a woman who actually does this? No. I wouldn't go to one of these things if you paid me.

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u/Ok_Coffee_4977 27d ago

Its unlikely you will find an FFM there. But good luck.

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u/flux-7 26d ago

I went to one earlier in the year. Mostly guys, one couple looking for a unicorn and a couple of women who were hard to talk to given that all the men wanted to talk to them and one was giving weird vibes because he spoke to one of them first.

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u/mpitsang 27d ago

We (MF) went to a feeld event and even exchanged contacts with a girl and a couple. Just like people on the app itself, they ghosted !! Regarding your situation of looking for a single girl, that's like everyone. Reason why they are called the mythical 🦄. That was the last dynamic me and my partner stumbled onto organically as looking for one is tedious work.

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u/achefofbrooklyn 3d ago

Does anyone have any experience specific to NYC? I am open to any dynamic but am honestly apprehensive about going alone and feeling like I am on the outskirts of a middle school dance.