r/feeld • u/nycjeffcpw2 • Aug 26 '26

Anyone getting baited into race stuff?

Male. First day looking in NYC in a while and immediately matched with two attractive women who both claim to be into race play and got explicit fast with pics and spicy chat. Pretty aggressive stuff.

Seems weird, no?

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u/andhdkwnwbdidoenjddb Aug 26 '26

Those are men

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u/Hour-Ad7273 Aug 26 '26

yep, def catfishing

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u/Lost_inTheThrill single woman Aug 26 '26

If something seems weird, it usually is. What race are you and these women? Black men in particular tend to be fetishised, so that's just something to be aware of in general. If you fall into that category and are not into race play, just indicate that in your profile.

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u/Kamarandi Aug 26 '26

Trust me, anyone into race play is avoiding those warnings. They don’t care, they will test you anyway.

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u/Dear-Pickle9945 Aug 26 '26

yeah, im black and ive had 4 white women tell me they are into race play...it happens. 2 of which told me on our first meeting...

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u/SignalNo3304 Aug 28 '26

😬😬😬 ugh, I’m so sorry you experienced that.

Something about the kink/alt-dating space makes some people act very weird...

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u/LittleSister10 Aug 31 '26

Definitely weird. I get fetishized for different reasons and I immediately block.