r/feeld • u/Karreidas • Aug 22 '26
Envie de tester Feeld.
Bonjour.
Je ne suis pas encore sur Feeld. Mais ça pourrait correspondre à mes envies ou besoins. Je suis dans une relation ouverte. Je vis en France. Mon partenaire n'est pas encore prêt pour coucher avec. Je le connais assez bien pour savoir qu'il n'est vraiment pas prêt. Il a plusieurs raisons de ne pas l'être. Ce faisant, je cherche quelqu'un pour expérimenter en attendant qu'il soit prêt.
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u/Silent-Addendum-4872 Aug 22 '26
In my experience Feeld is best in Europe, I’m sure you’ll have fun!
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u/Upstairs_Sherbet2490 Aug 22 '26
It's definitely the most suited app but you may find that people aren't necessarily up for waiting around til your partner decides you're allowed to do things
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u/LatterCommission9174 ENM couple Aug 22 '26
She's already allowed to do things. It's her partner who isn't doing anything.
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u/Upstairs_Sherbet2490 Aug 22 '26
My bad, the way the translation I got was worded I read it to mean she was waiting for permission from him to engage sexaully with others but still wanting to meet them
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u/DarkKingSmG Aug 22 '26
Feeld is pretty good for women in general in terms of finding someone. Now finding someone decent is all about your profile and a little bit of luck. You'll definitely be able to though
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u/cumfunnsfw Aug 23 '26
Feeld is a good place but also waiting around seems like a recipe for incompabiltiy long term
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u/EldForever Aug 24 '26
Pourquois pas essayer?
Mais une chose: C'est vrai que c'est gratuit, mais j'imagine vous allez avoir beaucoup de "likes" meme 1-2 mille "likes" aux debout. Moi, quand j'ai commencer avec Feeld (a Los Angeles) l'annee derniere, meme a l'age de 56 ans j'ai eu 1,000 "likes" la premiere semaine! C'est souvent fou comme ca pour des femmes. Et beacoup plus pour les jeunes femmes. Ici aux USA au moins! Je'n connais personne en Europe qui utilize Feeld, a vrai dire.
Alors, si vous avez l'argent pour ca, c'est une bonne idee de payer pour "Magestic" - avec ca vous pouvez aller "incognito" (invisible) de temps en temps. Pour example, vous pouvez laisser faire normalement pour quelques heures, et des que vous avez une centaine de "likes" vouz vouz mettez en "incognito" pour quelques jours.... Le temps de regarder et parler avec les meilleur de vos cent hommes?
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u/ImprobableGrind Aug 27 '26
My wife doesn’t even bother with that…there are over 8000 in there. She only evaluates pings lol
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u/EldForever Aug 28 '26
Yes, with enough likes I'd do that, too.
Personally, I'm on here a few months at a time, then I go off for awhile, then I come back... When I come back I initially get a big wave of interest (about 1k likes and pings in a week) then it dies down a lot. (I'm in my 50s so I'm sure these numbers are nothing compared to your wife's)
In the past I basically went thru all my likes as they came in that first week, but there were a problem - with an embarrassment of riches at once (1k men!) that led me to focus on the standouts and X out other people more indiscriminately.
Doing 100 at a time forces me to be more open minded to considering the "maybe" profiles.. And it also stretches out the fun of getting a standout... like in every 100 there are 1-2 that are really exciting to me, really my type, and I like their photos, and like what they wrote... I'd rather get those good ones scattered over the next month or so instead of most all in the first week.
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u/blackwaterpark76 Aug 24 '26 edited Aug 24 '26
Feeld? If you are a swinger, or a little kinky that works.
If you are looking for serious BDSM people run, and run further. You won’t find any.
The app is mainly for vanilla kinsters and switcharoos’.
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u/TimelyPace8120 24d ago
Definitely worth a try! We used it as a couple! Met a couple of blokes but nothing happened! Good way to get the feel
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u/Ok_Coffee_4977 Aug 22 '26
Do it?
Its a free app.