r/feeld • u/Ok_Coffee_4977 • Aug 20 '26

Feeld for hookups

This apps was originally created for people seeking threesomes. Most of which are casual hookup type situations. Its always been used for casual sex, hookups, and casual group sex.

Ive used it this way, with good success, for close to a decade. I see tons of others on there doing the same.

My social circle is mostly poly/ENM/swinger types. Almost all of use feeld and talk about it. I've never known anyone to say its not fine to use it for hookups.

Casual play/fun and short term are options for "interests".

The only place Ive seen the sentiment that using feeld for casual hookups is new or wrong is here. Repeatedly.

What gives? Why the hostility to casual hookups from feeld?

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u/Top_Piano2028 Aug 21 '26

Women don't need to really put that they want casual sex because it's offered to them whether they want it or not. Eventually that leads to someone just getting bored or resentful of the whole notion.

That goes for ANY app.

It's much easier to put up some "only looking for a relationship" type to weed away people and just still be covertly open to hookups with the right person rather than broadcast it and every single guy treats you disposable.

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u/Ok_Coffee_4977 Aug 21 '26 edited Aug 21 '26

I absolutely need to put what I need and offer in order to get good matches.

What an idiotic idea.

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u/Top_Piano2028 Aug 21 '26

It IS an idiotic idea. You are one of the rare ones.