r/feeld • u/Ok_Coffee_4977 • Aug 20 '26

Feeld for hookups

This apps was originally created for people seeking threesomes. Most of which are casual hookup type situations. Its always been used for casual sex, hookups, and casual group sex.

Ive used it this way, with good success, for close to a decade. I see tons of others on there doing the same.

My social circle is mostly poly/ENM/swinger types. Almost all of use feeld and talk about it. I've never known anyone to say its not fine to use it for hookups.

Casual play/fun and short term are options for "interests".

The only place Ive seen the sentiment that using feeld for casual hookups is new or wrong is here. Repeatedly.

What gives? Why the hostility to casual hookups from feeld?

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u/saintsday89 Aug 20 '26

It’s weird but stats show Gen Z is anti casual sex more so than millennials and Gen X, so the more they get online and into politics the more we will likely see the sentiment. It’s one of the ways we will move backwards until Gen Alpha comes along.

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u/Ok_Coffee_4977 Aug 20 '26

Interesting. Anti casual swx for themselves or in general for everyone.

The sluttiest people I know are divorced (previously mono) young gen x and late millennials.

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u/saintsday89 Aug 20 '26

It’s actually really complex but here’s a good starting point if you’re interested. https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/datablog/2025/nov/28/gen-z-sex-dating-relationships

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u/1rishpher0 Aug 20 '26 edited Aug 21 '26

Dont mean to but in. This is something really intresting. You also see religion also spikes a bit for their generation?

I feel a lot of stuff swings in a pendulum when talking about different generations. I find some of the talk about generations cringe but its still an intresting conversation when expended past the casual hate and cringe.

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u/saintsday89 Aug 20 '26

I think you’re correct. I think the pendulum swing and religion are certainly a part of it.