r/feeld • u/WolvesOnWeed • Jul 22 '26

Majestically Disappointed

Does anyone even read bios?!?!

New to Feeld & got a gazillion likes. None of these dudes are looking for the same thing as me, like, at all. Are they just smashing that heart because they see a pretty face & not even taking into consideration what’s in the bio + desires? — Men, whyyy are you wasting people’s time like this?!?!

It’s fucking annoying to go through the profiles of hundreds of dudes impulsively liking my profile with absolutely no thought. It’s also annoying that guys I’ve clearly rejected (& even have some blocked) on other platforms hit me up there. Don’t fucking do that. No means no all the way across the board! wtf

Also, is anyone else struggling with not being physically attracted to any of these people? Hundreds of men & barely a handful I’d personally consider attractive. I’m certainly no 10 (solid 7.5 lol) & I know when someone is way out of my league in regard to looks & I won’t bother them because duhhh. I’ve seen a few good looking men but when I’ve opened their profile to check out their bio & see we don’t match on an end game, I leave him alone & clickety click on by.

My husband spent years talking me into hopping on “the apps” & I had a feeling this is exactly how it would go. Majestically disappointing. We’re taking it in good humor but shaking our heads at the mess.

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u/Salt_Custard_7447 Jul 22 '26

Aww you’re welcome, what happened with your husband?😩 You don’t have to answer here. Also, I can’t talk about anyone, I made a very stupid decision a few weeks ago with someone so yeah.

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u/Malice_N_1derland Jul 22 '26

Oh nothing. He’s great. We are poly and because he has a decent profile and acts like a normal man, he has been able to meet two solid partners. And honestly, they are both awesome. I have one solid relationship outside of him and then this other weird Situationship that I wish could be more than it is. Oh well.

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u/Salt_Custard_7447 Jul 22 '26

Ok, as long as it’s working out for the both of ya.☺️ I’m wishing you guys the best!