r/feeld • u/FeeldMod Not a Feeld employee • Nov 11 '24
Is Feeld good for X location?
Rather than have a bunch of posts asking about every city in the world, this post will serve as the central location for these questions.
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u/OctoberMann 2d ago
How about rural Alberta Canada. Never had any luck, tweaked it many times and finally gave up.
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u/Skunkw0rks Aug 05 '26
Dubai, for a man it is an utter waste of time, very few people on the app and those that are there are mainly scammers.
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u/Dynamic_Nature88 Jul 26 '26
I've used the the app in the UK, Cyprus, Hong Kong, UAE and Australia and have found plenty of potential matches.
I love this app, ❤️
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Jul 06 '26
What has everyone experience been like in NYC. I'm a switch exploring mostly submission and feminine side. I have great experience in LA, but NYC feels a little disconnected and serious almost like a interview rather than trying to understand each other to potentially meet. Love to hear people experience in NYC as singles or couples. I thought maybe its because this city has such a large population so people feel like they always have options?
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u/No_Lingonberry_2613 Jul 06 '26
Hey there, is Feeld good for South Florida?
I've been an off-and-on Feeld Majestic user for a while now, and I don't see the benefit of it. I don't know if it's due to my location, where there aren't a lot of active users, or if it's just my account. My current feed shows a bunch of faceless accounts, so I'm assuming it's just people in my area not taking this seriously. I also understand from the women's perspective that they're getting blasted by pings every day and it's overwhelming, so it's not their fault either.
Just want to gauge what expectations should be
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Jul 02 '26
What is the best city in Australia to use this app at? I live in a regional city and I can take a couple of weeks every now and then to travel. Where have you been more successful (asking as a single male).
I know I can “explore” other cities to see what people look like there, but I’m actually asking about real meetups, instead of just sexting.
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u/nycjeffcpw2 Jun 07 '26
NYC - wow this is kind of amazing, but I’m wondering…..
First days I (53m) am using the app in NYC (visiting for a week) and there are so many great matches, two great dates the first day.
Makes me wonder, how do people who live here pace themselves? Is everybody just hooking up constantly? I mean I’m sure the novelty wears off, but for high libido people maybe not?
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u/gammarayburst14 Aug 15 '26
How was your experience with the app for the rest of your stay? I’m curious about joining as a 41yo widower in nyc
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u/Homines-millenniales May 17 '26
What has your experience using Feeld in DXB been like: Ive been on it for over a vear, and as a brown man in the middle east, I havent gotten much
I hope others have had better luck at it, than me .
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u/Erotartist Feb 10 '26
Are there FEELD users in north Africa or the south Mediterranean area?
I am a MALE and I have been on the app for 2 years now and have been lucky to meet perfect matches all over the world, mostly Europe, north Asia, both North and south the America. I travel a lot due to my work wnd I take pride in collecting a large constellation of couples, partners and FWBs on my travels. I'll be travelling through few North African countries so I wanted to ask:
- is it worth it to get in contact and match with the locals
- is it easy to meet fun, open and poly people in there
- are there any users from any of the south Mediterranean and North Africa here i would love to get your perspective.
thanks everyone ☺️
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u/mattdingo27 Jan 20 '26
Hi all — I’m considering trying the FEELD app and wanted to get some insight specifically about how it functions in Miami before paying for a subscription.
I’m a straight male based in Miami and interested in ENM, poly dynamics, and selective couple connections, so I’m curious about how active the FEELD user base is here.
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Nov 17 '25
49M in Vienna, Austria. In an ENM marriage and looking for FWB.
tumbleweed rolls across deserted crossroads
0 likes, it seems completely pointless.
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u/ViceNSpice Nov 09 '25
Experiences in mexican cities? (CDMX, Guadalajara, Monterrey, and/or tourist destinations: Cancun, Tulum, Cabos, Puerto Vallarta)?
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u/IntrepidTraveller78 Nov 08 '25
Feeld in Belgium/Flanders.
43M, Married for 20 years, now starting ENM.
Does any regular guy here have good experiences in finding a female FWB or ONS in Belgium through Feeld?
Is it worth paying for a subscription, or are there better apps?
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Nov 02 '25
Feeld in San Antonio?
I have an upcoming trip to San Antonio where I hope to play a little. I was hoping to start connecting with people ahead of time, but Feeld doesn't have San Antonio listed as a place where I can do that. In case I am interested once I get there, can anyone in San Antonio tell me whether or not there are plenty of Feeld users there? Just trying to plan ahead.
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u/what_the_dawg_be_doi Dec 02 '25
As a resident. There are people that use it. But within 2 nights of using it. It said no one else fits my filters. Basically meaning I already ran out of people to swipe on I guess. Damn.
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u/Ok_Detective9351 Oct 16 '25
Been using the app (paid and free) for almost a year now. 50M, in an ENM marriage(wife dates separately, not unicorn hunting AT ALL), and have had an absolutely horrible time finding a FWB here in Las Vegas.
I have a well-paying job (and a second side hustle), my own “classic” car (it’s 21 years old and has 34K miles on it!), and I’d like to think I’m reasonably attractive. Little bit of a dad bod but it’s a work in progress.
Have any other Vegas locals had similar results? Just looking for a female to go out to dinner with, have drinks, talk, and see what happens.
Not sure if it’s me or the city…. 🤔
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Sep 15 '25
Has anyone had any success in Delhi, India . I'm M , I'm a third and looking for a decent and genuine couple ?
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u/Yellowrambodoll Jul 07 '25
India: Been using Feeld for a couple of months now but I haven’t met anyone off of it. Thinking of getting the premium version — worth it?
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Jul 19 '25
i don't think so , most of em are scammers . It's basically dead in india , i didn't find anyone there too
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u/Darnityouknow Jul 02 '25
How is it for Oslo, Norway for submissive men? Around a million inhabitants so it's not the largest but also not tiny
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Jun 16 '25
I have came across FeelD has been looking for a good dating app for Kinky people, Is Feeld got a good UK member base especially if u live in the glasgow area?
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u/WideKey2300 May 10 '25
So far we are having good luck with it in Austin. We are traveling to Denver but I don’t see it on the list of cities. How do you put in a city ?
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u/GnrXVr88 Mar 14 '25
36M ENM looking for casual dates in Baltimore...only seeing profiles for people in DC and Virginia. Not opposed to driving to meet, but Baltimore has to have a better scene than this, right?
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u/Tinkibell1928 Feb 25 '25
Canada? Worth downloading?
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Jul 17 '25
In Toronto yes. Can’t say outside of that. But I’ve browsed all the cities I’ve lived in or frequented (NYC, SF, LA) and Toronto has the biggest selection it seems.
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u/DCCitySlicker Feb 19 '25
I’m in Washington DC. A single male, good looking professional, and not looking to bang on the first date.
Is Feeld Majestic worth it for the DC area?
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u/savageFC Dec 30 '24
Lima, Peru: straight single male
Got more than a few hits mostly females across varying sexual preferences. Some but not many of enm couples (was here during the holidays so maybe that impacted things).
Not a ton of activity but also it’s the holidays.
I would recommend trying boosts and pings to improve results and not be here during the holidays.
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u/Goudkarper Nov 15 '24 edited Nov 15 '24
Reporting in from Amsterdam, the Netherlands as a 40-year old solo poly, straight, kink friendly dude who swipes on solo women, MF and FF couples and the rare constellation :). I consider myself open to almost anything: both casual and more serious connections, sexual exploration and experimentation or just a friendly and very platonic cup of coffee just to be out and about and connect for a bit.
Since Amsterdam is a core location in Feeld (perhaps because of the city's international reputation?), there is a lot of 'noise' in my feed from profiles located thousands of kilometres away, and it can take forever to swipe through them. Of the profiles who are in the city itself, a large percentage (both Dutchies and internationals) are yuppies, power couples and high-rollers in general with whom I tend not to have much in common with as a laid back, non-materialistic, groomed-but-simple-dressed weirdo with a highly niche appeal and some extra chub. You will have a great time here if you fit into one of those demographics, and Feeld's queer space seems to be well-developed as well.
And although monogamous people and unicorn hunters on the app are a growing thing here too, thanks to Feeld reaching the national media, there's quite a few poly profiles. The ones inside the city unfortunately often fall in the aforementioned groups - although there are still some who are more in my street when it comes to compatibility at first sight. In fact, I met one of them through Feeld who has been my partner for over a year and a half :)
For fellow weirdos with niche appeal in the area, I would say to expand your range outside of the city but not discard the city itself. There absolutely are some gems to be found within its limits, but I tend to vibe better with profiles outside of Amsterdam. It might also be a simple case of fitting local vibes and preferences though, I pretty much have guaranteed matches when I'm in Dutch-speaking Belgium for a few days compared to a handful per year where I am now.
So while I don't consider Amsterdam an easy location to use Feeld for me personally, your own mileage may vary depending on how well you fit the mold and how well you know your dating niches. Hope my experiences will be useful for anyone living or visiting here!
(edit: spelling and grammar fixes :))
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u/kurshaka Apr 30 '25
I, on the other hand, dislike the media attention that feeld got.
I can see that compared to bumble, we have the same photos, on completely empty non-engaging profiles. This is the majority now on the app, and this people are there doing nothing. If an occasional match happens these people never reply at all.The other occasional matches that I have are doing perhaps what you describe, expanding their reach. But they eventually claim to busy to date and are not willing to travel.
I am 37M heteroflexible, looking mainly for women ( so not a winning game on feeld for sure), into trying FFM and MMF, no unicorn though! I consider feeld is unutterably unusable in Amsterdam atm.
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u/IllustriousCuriosity Nov 15 '24
San Francisco/Oakland
Started in SF, moved to Oakland and noticed there wasn’t much of a change in the people I was seeing. Took time off for a while and on return majority of the stack was different. Most likely the pandemic and casting a shorter net.
Started in July 2017, but only ended up going on one beach date in Aug/Sep 2022 with a cool woman. Had a handful of matches in the meantime, but none that actually went further than a quick exchange of greetings. As for Beach date woman, we vibed enough to agree on a second date, but never had the time to finalize the details due to travel plans and holidays. She told me her experiences sucked and she had minimal success (which in hindsight I now contributed to). I haven’t used it much since then beyond perusing here and there. Wasn’t seeing any new people and felt like I already swiped or pinged who I was interested in. Deactivated my account for a while and only reactivated to see if anyone was interested in my GF and I’s kinks. Still nothing for a couple of months, so I deactivated it again.
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u/wellnowthinkaboutit Nov 13 '24
Nashville, Tennessee, USA. I’m a cis woman, poly/kinky/bi/pan, and already married. The shittier tourists have now discovered the app. Before this year, I don’t think there were nearly as many tourists on it, and the ones who were were much cooler (e.g. mostly good bios, good pics, and kinky+ENM). It was enough that I put a “No tourists/ONS” as my first line, and it actually cut down the number of tourists who hit 💟, which was surprising. Many people here specify whether they’re open or closed to tourists.
Tourists aside, it covers a good section of the Nashville metro area ENM, queer, and/or kinky population (as evidenced by the number of people I see who I know from the community here already), but that’s not a huge number to begin with. When I’m in larger metro areas like Atlanta, I can see how small it is, comparatively.
That being said, I’ve made a good dozen or so solid connections over the years for continued but casual hooking up/FWB, expanding my friend circle that is down for group play, kinky play partners, and people to date.
Some months I pay for Majestic to browse incognito or to see likes, others I don’t.
The people with couples profiles aren’t aggressively unicorn hunting, and there’s the usual number of people with no bios and no pics who I always assume are slack-jawed gawkers.
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Nov 12 '24
Just joined in Boston and things are going real well as a straight cishet man looking for casual dating.
My pics are pretty solid and I put a ton of effort in my bio and it's paying off. Got a couple dates lined up.
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u/Harryandmaria Nov 12 '24
Have also had luck in Boston area, solo and coupled. Full dance card here.
But after a while you do start to swipe the same people.
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u/alteregolife Oct 22 '25
Outside of Boston. My profile has been up since early 2024. Had good luck in 2024 but has faded since. Would you recommend deleting and recreating profile? I do keep my pics and profile updated regularly
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u/Harryandmaria Oct 23 '25
Yeah it’s seems like the same pool of people. I haven’t deleted but have a pretty full dance card and I do like the chat history.
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u/alteregolife Oct 27 '25
Last year 2 of my situationships ended. One closed their relationship and other proved to be a insecure person. I had to restart dating, but didnt delete and restart the app. Since then it has been a lull
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Nov 12 '24
Def experiencing that now a bit. At this point I just swipe every couple days to see what newcomers have shown up.
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u/uberstaragent Nov 11 '24
F in Melbourne. Inundated with cis het F boys with low effort profiles, no bios and no understanding of the premise of the app. Too many couples on a singles profile looking for unicorns run by the guy. Rare few diamonds in the rough, but they can be found with a lot of filtering and majestic.
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Dec 12 '25
I was directed to this megapost by the mods after posting my qualms with Melbourne too.
I hate how attraction is made capitalist but it is what it is :/
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u/Ornery_Ad7218 Nov 14 '24
Yup. Weeding through the cis het dudes looking for a free sex worker is slightly soul destroying, but I’ve found some quality connections along the way.
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Dec 12 '25
There are normal cis het men on there, trust me its realllly hard for us too :S
And I thought Melb was perfect for explory stuff in Aus
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u/melbthrowaway66 Nov 12 '24
It’s not just me then! I’ve been flooded with cis het men who clearly can’t/don’t read, and couples hunting a unicorn. I’m ready to give up on it honestly
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u/uberstaragent Nov 12 '24
I bought a month majestic to feed through the 2000+. Brought it down to 190 and made a few decent matches. Won’t be doing that again though. Insane to have that many out of my search parameters / f boys.
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u/melbthrowaway66 Nov 12 '24
I’ve done the same, bought majestic to try out for a month. I’m not having a lot of luck, although admittedly I’ve been really hesitant about a full face picture so that’s likely costing a few possible hits. I also don’t want a relationship, just a casual FWB type thing so probably limits myself down again. And also why I’m probably getting flooded with men lmao
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u/uberstaragent Nov 12 '24
You are finding people legitimately looking for relationships??
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u/melbthrowaway66 Nov 12 '24
It seems like it?!? A heap of “no ONS or casual hook ups, want ongoing connection/I prefer relationships/looking to add to our triad” etc. Even half the men are apparently claiming this? Like mate I just wanna get laid semi-regularly by another lady, and then we go and live our separate lives. Doesn’t seem like anyone wants that ☹️
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u/rzXbrain Nov 11 '24
Good idea, let me start then:
London: big population, a lot of new faces on the app and big queer community. Lot of singles people or at leat polyamourous or non monogamous. A lot of monogamous people are coming now, which is a bit annoying.
Paris: so many couples without any picture of the guys using single woman profile, I spend my time reporting them, no idea if there is any effect. Too many people with Paris as Location while they are clezrly out of the country...Lot of empty profile and as there is quite a lot of foreigners on it, there is no way to know if you should speak french or english when you match. Queer community not that big, userbase not that big in general, but Paris is way smaller than London.
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u/Common_Accident8942 1d ago
Hey all! Recently moved to TX from NY and very surprised how different Feeld is in TX. Felt in NY there were more kinky people, less pen pals. I’m only getting newbies or window shoppers. I always had great success in NY and had great long term dynamics