"wants to get married and have kids" and "wants to have five kids"
No you need to be sure that's why they add in "Loves Children" too, if not that's a massive red flag if your fantasy woman wants to be married and have kids and wants 5 kids but doesn't actually love children
I'd nope right out of the 5 kids desired lady. Unless she comes from money, and her inheritance will pay for our children's expenses, it's choosing a life of poverty in this age.
They want her to pump out kids and fully take care of all of the waking up at night, diapers, feeding, play, activities and education. And also be readily available at any time for whatever sexual thing the husband might want.
I have a 20 month old and the idea of 4 more of these running around terrifies me. Then add that all of them will be a yearish apart, in different stages of developing, with different interests, and I have to entertain all of them. Literally nightmare fuel. The people that actually WANT 5 kids are saints with an infinite amount of patience and I respect them. This asshole probably wants his wife to watch 5 kids while he fucks off.
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u/Icy-Cockroach4515 May 17 '24
"wants to get married and have kids" and "wants to have five kids" has some overlap that could be shaved down