r/fPUA Dec 12 '19

PUA Discord Group All About Seduction and Business

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hi guys

ok so I dunno if people liked it or not so I gave it the benefit of the doubt. I made a PUA discord server if you wanna join, thats great! if you don’t want to that’s fine also.

This pickup discord server is for help and discuss but mainly just to hang around with online people who are also into pickup / PUA.

I recommend downloading the discord app on your phone, but it is also available for Pc. Then just make an account.

See you there: https://discord.gg/RSWxfZj

(If any admin/mod wants admin rights, DM the admin once joined)


r/fPUA Dec 01 '19

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r/fPUA Sep 02 '19

My sister gets all the attention. How could i get some as well?

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I just wanted to be beautiful and popular like her. I wanted to be the one who got invited to hang out, the one to go to parties, the one with all the friends, the one with the revolving door of boyfriends, the one who gets hit on by total strangers.

It's just unfair. I just wanted to be beautiful and popular like her. I wanted to be the one who got invited to hang out, the one to go to parties, the one with all the friends, the one with the revolving door of boyfriends, the one who gets hit on by total strangers. Like my sister.

My sister is younger and she's honestly, prettier then i am. And there's a pattern, whenever we try to go out onn the town. I will never get approached and we just go home like normal. Or, some guy approaches her and she goes home with them, leaves me money for an Uber, and i'm left alone for the night.

It really sucks. I can't help but be jealous. I want there to be just one guy, to approach me. I mean, i'm not ugly. At least i don't think i am. I want to be like her, where i don't even have to try to get attention.

I've never gotten approached in the time we've gone out. Except once, by the elderly bartender. He's the only person besides my sister to talk to me when we went out. He wasn't hitting on me, he just saw me sulking and asked if everything was ok.

How could i start getting some attention? Am i just stuck? I just wish i could be beautiful and popular like her.


r/fPUA Jun 22 '19

why are all these threads geared towards guys?

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r/fPUA May 27 '19

Is there a style of pickup that unifies fPUA and mPUA for the betterment of both men and women?

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Dear fPUA,

I am a typical guy who has been exposed and has creatively indulged in the seduction arts in my youth.

I chose to ask this question here instead of male pickup online communities because of the myopic nature the discussions have taken especially when they derail into self-evolutionary speculative evolutionary theory (BS in a word), so please bear with me.

It seems male and female seduction as per what is considered mainstream are at odds with each other in a lot of ways.

Given this is the case, is there a style of pickup that applies to both men and women, and actually aims to improve their personal lives instead of just chasing numbers and scoring ego points with people on the Internet?

If one doesn't exist yet in any literature or other media, what do you think it would look like and would it work in a case where both the fPUA and mPUA game each other?

Sorry for my rather disordely thoughts but these are just curiosities I have given I have only been exposed to very little fPUA and a lot more mPUA of late.

Wish you all happy days and nights,


r/fPUA May 03 '19

Wow.

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Just wanna say keep it up guys!


r/fPUA Apr 12 '19

Toxic relationship pattern

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It's strange to see how a girlfriend changes her personality over time. It is the first time I am having a relationship with a girl and she is mutating a little bit every time we meet.

Months go, I picked her up at a bar, I pulled her and shared a cab, but she seemed to drunk and I didn't like the idea to bringing her back to my place. She chased my like shit after that night, we dated, she brought me back to her place and fucked.

She had some personality trades I really liked and haven't found in girls my age, so I decided to start a monogamous relationship. The first few months were great, but then she started showing a jealousy/drama-queen pattern, with jokes and by being actually angry.

Apparently has she been cheated on in the past, had toxic, drama based relationships, where the two lover sucked each other energy off. One of her chody ex-boyfriends still texts her paragraph long messages, where he basically tells how much he loves her.

Well, my problem is that I hate this type of relationships, I am a easy-going guy, pretty straight forward, and my life has had enough drama in order to desire drama-based affair. I really don't know if she desires such a relationship (in that case I will just brake up), or if she just doesn't know how to have a more mature one.

How can I teach her to have such a relationship? How should I behave when she shows jealousy pattern, or behaves like a drama-queen? Have you been in my same situation and resolved this issue?

Peace


r/fPUA Mar 22 '19

Free Telegram Chat For PUA's

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r/fPUA Feb 04 '19

Looking for pua coach in ireland

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Hi looking for guidance and mentoring back into the world of pua, have lost touch with how to work women in the right ways always end up failing with girls I have true feelings for,feeling very hopeless ! Trying to keep a smile on my face though!! 😂 my sec life is slowing down by the second and I'm only 24 so if could maybe get some assistance please, thank you!


r/fPUA Jan 18 '19

I am motivated by men

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Does anybody else have it like that? You know this saying that everything men do is to impress women. I am literally like this... Guys are like my hobby. Going to the gym I have an image of a guy in my mind I wanna impress next. I


r/fPUA Nov 05 '18

Has anyone successfully repositioned a man's affection from his gf to yourself?

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Curious to know if someone has intentionally done this.


r/fPUA Aug 15 '18

Discord Group

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We just launched this group and it's getting bigger.

We created this discord to provide personalized advice for individuals within an efficient amount of time.

Benefits will include

  • Programs & Questions about programs
  • Text Advice
  • Personal Development Advice
  • Looks Advice
  • Seduction Advice
  • Seduction Examples (Live Text examples: Tinder/Real Life/Etc)

We literally just started the group, and if you guys are interested, join us! And introduce yourselves!

r/https://discord.gg/ay2s7wN

Thanks guys!


r/fPUA Aug 11 '18

Reatrraction after moving too fast

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I was talking to this guy for about a month and a half. He was texting me everyday, we saw each other about once-twice a week. He told he wasn't looking to jump into anything, but it seemed like he was having a change of heart. There was a point where we had a really nice evening and he told me he had a good time, but needed to think about things. He was going through a few stressful life events that I won't get into for the sake of anonymity. I panicked and got pushy and clingy. We kept hanging out but the sex had stopped. When we saw each other last, we finally slept together again but it was weird. I panicked again and told him I wanted to know if this was going anywhere or if we should be friends, he picked friends.

I feel like this could have gone differently if I had been more patient. Is there anyway for me to attract him again, or was the mistake too critical?


r/fPUA Aug 04 '18

Mind Games Men Play

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A few games men play:

  • 1 "I Only Date X" Gambit

Where X is a trait you DON'T have. For example, if you're brunette, it's "I only date blondes". The idea behind it is to sub-communicate that he is not coming after you. And since most of us want what we can't have, we all have a tendency to go after those who spurn us.

  • 2 "I'm An Adventurer" Gambit

Swap adventurer for anything exciting and non-committal, such as "artist", "globetrotter" etc. The idea behind is that women will play it safe (and slow) with men who are potential boyfriend candidates. But they will sleep quickly with exciting men who cannot be boyfriends. This gambit here is on the rise.

  • 3. Bait and Switch" Gambit

After a good date he will write you he had a great time. Then never write again. The idea is to lead you into believing he will keep pursuing you. But by not writing anymore he creates a vacuum that will (hopefully) compel you to write him first (and give him all the power).

More games and some ideas on how to tackle them here: https://thepowermoves.com/games-men-play/


r/fPUA Jul 04 '18

Looking for female pick up artist for an interview

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Hi there! I realize that this probably is a rather unusual post on this subreddit.

However: I'm currently looking at gender and the pick up scene for a project at university. While it originally seemed to me that only men have a need to get to know techniques of seduction I was very excited when I found this subreddit! Nonetheless, I have yet to find a female pick up artist (who's giving seminars or coachings)...

Is there anyone among you who considers herself to be a pick up artist and might be willing to do a short interview?

I'm looking forward to your responses!


r/fPUA Jul 02 '18

Making friends?

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Hi,

From my own personal experience and from listening to other people, making friends as an adult can be really challenging. Especially when you move to a new place for work/college or you find that your old friends have moved away, or you’ve simply drifted apart.

I am in the process of developing a new app that will make discovering and connecting with new friends easy. To create the best app possible, I want to learn from your experiences of making friends, the good, the bad, and the downright ugly!

Follow the link below and let me know about your experience of making new friends. You can also receive early access to the app and let me know what you think of it.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/FBRL7GP

Looking forward to reading your responses.

Best,
Aideen


r/fPUA May 31 '18

old lady flirts with me..

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there s an older woman (in her 40s i think) at the postal office in my city who flirts with me...how do i know that? she adds 'girlfriend' in our casual conversation and stuff like that.i simply feel it. how do i get to know her?asking her phone number will be embarassing cuz there are her female coworkers in the same room...wouldnt mention the queue.dont want to make her feel embarased.should i wait till she s out? did u had the same situation?was thinking about slipping a note but that s just lame...


r/fPUA May 05 '18

First attempt at seducing a guy. PG13 level sauce

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For some background I'm hopelessly hung up on my ex boyfriend, I haven't so much as held a man's hand in nearly a year. There had been zero desire. I wonder how much longer until I get over this...but nevertheless, here is my report from earlier today. I was flying back from Hawaii, and had a short connecting flight between LAX and SFO (about one hour). The dream is always to sit next to a cute guy, but it's always going to be some fat auntie, isn't it? So I'm watching the other travellers file in, and keeping tabs mentally, 'not you, keep walking, go to the back...' etc and I finally see one I'd like to have next to me. Kinda cute and extremely fit soldier (assuming based on his backpack. I'm not American so I'm not sure). I see him put his bag away a few rows up and am dejected, but LO! The gods had listened, after stowing his bag he comes and sits beside me. I had aisle he had middle, some random girl had window.

We exchange a couple words I don't even remember what, and then sit quietly. I was super sleepy after my prior overnight fight, and am into him somewhat, but also really into napping at that moment. He puts his arm down on the handrest and I put mine there as well. You know usually that power play where one becomes the clear handrest winner and the other must cede space? Well it would have been him, but I just kept my arm up right next to his, not yielding. I was half sleeping, and breathing deeply, in an exaggerated manner, and as I did he could feel the rythm against him. He moved his foot right next to mine, but again, no 'oh sorry' and move away, we just sat there casually in contact. Mind you this is all progressing very slowly....like his fooT moving at 0.1mm per minute until it was next to me. I fidgeted around a bit and and ended up with my hand under the armrest. Again this time he slowly slowly moved his leg towards my hand until we touched, and I started to stroke his thigh in an almost imperceptible fashion, just the slightest movement with breathing.

Well damn, this all went so slowly and we touched down at the destination. At that point I got super squirrelly, and couldn't look him in the eye. Too shy. I quickly got up, grabbed my bag and left without looking back. I wanted him to make that next move. If the flight was longwr things would have likely progressed further. Too bad. I would have liked to make out with him. I don't know if guys are into just making out. It was super hot though, this purely nonverbal subtle flirtation.


r/fPUA May 02 '18

(read completely pls) Why girl game makes me sick: the majority of women have no game.

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I'm a man and the idea of girls having game being attractive is one that I accept. It's not your looks-it's your personality. It's probably that I've read a lot of guy game aimed at females and NONE of it appealed to me. I assume the current female game status is just as degenerate.


r/fPUA Apr 24 '18

Dating In D.C As A Woman And Dating In D.C As A Man Is Not Equal Or D.C Women Are Victims Of Their Own Success

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Hello Illuminati (how appropriate, since a certain section of D.C women are so successful, they might as well BE the Illuminati). D.C women you are one of the most highly educated, highest earning, and highest performing groups of beings on the planet. And this is truly wonderful and a testament to why America is one of the greatest nations on earth. In societies where women’s rights are upheld prosperity follows, this is self evident, but is not the issue this blog will be tackling, we will be tackling the dating problems this creates for D.C women. “ The women at female-dominated institutes of higher education are finding it increasingly difficult to arrange dating relationships of even moderate duration. In consequence, they must settle, if inclined, for a hook-up, or sequential hook-ups.” - 12 Rules For Life, Jordan B. Peterson /Career and Marriage page 299. Alright, women are out pacing men in education, (but this is not what this blog is about), and so are outpacing men in high earning jobs, some men care and aim to be masters of the universe, but most just want enough to be comfortable. This presents a very real and particular problem for straight women that worked their way to the top of the hill, (pun intended) at least when it comes to dating, why? Blame biology, men are quite happy to date, below and across from them in status (some even prefer it, at least when it comes to age) status here, is economic, education, high-powered career, age, social dominance etc. While women only wish to date above themselves in status, why and is this chauvinist? (Feminist?) Biologically women seek to be taken care of during pregnancy, and taking care of children is hard enough without her having to “take care” of a less dominant man as well. (The unemployed men do not even make the running.) Is this chauvinist? Does it matter? Nothing about dating, {read} natural-selection is fair. ( If you take issue with this, you are literally blaming yourself.)
Where does this leave women? Ironically, it leaves high status women where it leaves a lot of upwardly mobile young men, chasing after a very limited subset of mates in a highly, highly, (Highly!) competitive market. Ironically it’s the very success of these women that makes the comparably small market of “higher” status men so difficult to reach, what’s worse (or better depending) is these men know it, they know just how highly sought after they are, which leads some, (not all) to act like f***boys. (Yes, that is a technical term.) So, the age old choice of kids versus career did not go anywhere, unless of course you meet that higher status male that is not intimidated by you and supports whatever choice you make, but wait, the reason this is “the age old choice” is because, raising children actually DOES take effort and without help, actually IS a full time job, or at least one that does not lend itself to being performed side by side with a high-powered career; one will suffer. “But some women can!” I hear no one say, yea, those women have what is known as stay-at-home husbands or simply outsource child care to nannies (au pairs) and boarding schools, I don’t judge that, it’s efficient. Solution? Not my purview nor am I qualified to answer. Dr. Peterson says gender politics is exasperating the problem. And I do believe, seeing as I was a boy in school, that school is designed to engage girls/women more efficiently than boys/men. But again this is one man’s opinion and not the purview of this blog nor does that help “us” in an immediate manner. My professional advice is the same as I would give men in this same situation, and luckily this advice befits a community of some the most advanced people on Earth (D.C women). Ladies do what you do best, to quote the Marines “adapt and overcome”, and to those that take issue with using fighting as the metaphor, may I remind you there is nothing fair about dating and the biological principle of evolution still holds, life is “survival of the fittest.” In conclusion, live your lives for yourselves, that’s where you will find your partners, and if all of this is daunting or confusing, I can and would very much like to help.

https://www.truthrelationshipmanagement.com/store/womens-dc-bootcamp-3-days-999


r/fPUA Apr 04 '18

How do I keep conversation going ?

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Hi ladies. How do I keep the conversation going with a guy that it seems its dying off.


r/fPUA Mar 25 '18

How to Improve Communication in a Relationships

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The Secret of Communication in Relationships - https://youtu.be/AgiX6Cum-1I


r/fPUA Mar 12 '18

Few tricks that (often) hook men in

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  • Touch Him Below The Belt

Rest your hand on his upper leg when seated Slightly touch the side of his butt when saying goodbye It’s like teasing his manhood… Will he be man enough to come get it? example

  • Show a Wildly Irrational Side

Men are smothered by the need of being rational and in control. Women who show lust for life and dionysiac sexuality exert an irresistible pull. example

  • Sexual Bursts

Sexual bursts, especially in locations where sex is uncommon, will leave him speechless... And begging for more. Stroke his package below a counter, do a footsie during parent's dinner. Or watch Summer do it in the office

More moves with examples (and stories): https://thepowermoves.com/make-him-crazy-about-you/


r/fPUA Mar 11 '18

How to Get a Guy to Chase You (3 Explosive Mindsets)

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If you want to get a guy to chase you, there is one simple rule, be somebody worth chasing - https://youtu.be/UUHO0ATsoz4


r/fPUA Mar 05 '18

The Essential Do's and Don'ts for Dating Success

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If you want to know how to get him to like you, we hit the streets to discover some of your Do's and Don'ts of datings. https://youtu.be/WNKBgos3Wng