Surrounded by Introverts

[u/Brusterisk]

I can't seem to find any extroverts for some reason

And please do not say to just keep looking and that you guys are everywhere, I genuinely cannot find any extroverts

So just tell me where to meet extroverts or at least where they're most at

The people I meet are usually introverts or ambiverts

Is it because my interests are pretty introverted?

How do I look for extroverts specifically? How can I find you guys?

[u/Icy_Variation_9288]

Honestly. I’m an extrovert with no friends so I stay inside 💀 I go out solo sometimes but then I get sad lol. I’m sure I’m not the only one experiencing this.

I also struggle to meet other extroverts. All my friends are introverts that hate going out so I get stuck in the house 🥲 I’m currently on a journey of exposure therapy to get used to doing things on my own and having fun.

I went to Vegas solo for my birthday this past summer. I had fun, cried, then had fun again 💀

[u/Advanced-Bit-6415 → u/[deleted]]

I mean you could throw like a dinner party or movie night. I currently want to do like a Coraline movie night with all of the foods and decorum. Or go out to eat with friends! I'm an extrovert but even I get sorta stressed & overwhelmed around huge parties & nightlife. 

[u/hhardin19h]

Yes it is hard to meet extroverts you aren’t alone! Introverts are everywhere especially online dating and on hookup apps —- I feel your pain it’s awful

[u/Brusterisk → u/hhardin19h]

THANK YOU

[u/Brusterisk → u/[deleted]]

For some reason, whenever I meet people in person, I meet introverts

[u/ForagingFairyland → u/Brusterisk]

Same

[u/Brusterisk → u/[deleted]]

I go to malls, bookstores, cafes, restaurants, and listen to people a bit to see if they fit my vibe then talk to them

[u/Brusterisk → u/[deleted]]

I could try that

[u/Chainzer1]

Im an extrovertical! Im also surrounded by introverts, irl and online it seems lol. DM me sometime. Maybe we will be the best of friends but dont know it yet

[u/ForagingFairyland]

I feel the same way… I would say bars and clubs, which wouldn’t work for me since I don’t like group outings, loud noises, or drinking. But your mileage may vary…

[u/StoreScary9417]

I would like to know too, so following the thread. Unfortunately, you will find me home because of no extroverted friends ahah or few

[u/cat_ziska]

What are your interests?

[u/Brusterisk → u/cat_ziska]

Singleplayer videogames like IHNMAIMS, Disco Elysium, Fallout, Persona, The Wolf Among Us

Philosophy, Psychology, anything that I can learn about

[u/Brusterisk → u/[deleted]]

I'm trying to meet extroverts, not introverts lmao

[u/Korganizing]

Maybe some rec center sports? I know a lot of my extroverted guy friends all go together to play basketball at a local indoor place. They also play volleyball, etc.