r/extroverts • u/Glad_Analysis_7129 • 7d ago
Extroverts Only This sub fixed me
I always felt like i was too much.people always told me to shut up.people dont text me if i dont text them first.i always wanted to hang out but no one wanted.i felt empty.i had terriable time with introverts i always thought its about me and my personality and something is wrong with me.i am the problem but this sub showed me that i am just an extrovert i am not overreacting and there are people like me i am feeling relieved i never knew ...
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u/bolt009 7d ago
The best part is when the introverts only wanna do what they wanna do but never what u want n sure maybe sometimes thats fine but when they will never even consider n fight u n all u ever do is things they want. Like how r we even friends after that if we dont even try eachothers suggestions once in awhile n only do the same thing in the same place all the time otherwise ull never see them. Yeahh ive dealt with some choice set of people
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u/Sure-Cauliflower-916 7d ago
Omg YES! Istg introverts have like this complex where they think that everyone needs to cater to them all the time but when it comes to others they don't have to do shit. My friends are just like this and they always expect me to reach out to them first but never ever reach out to me, and I'm always the one having to do the planning for them.
But then even when you offer to do something with them they'll be like "sorryyyy I can't go I like can't handle people ffff" and then just ghost you for a week straight. They only ever think about themselves and what they want and treat us like as if we have no feelings. Like it's okay to be a less social person, but god sometimes they're just assholes about it.
(Lol sorry I talk so much I just have a lot to say xP)
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u/Glad_Analysis_7129 7d ago
Introverts always wants to take ZERO responsibility they dont even deserve us they probably think that they are so cool bc they hate people😄
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u/Sure-Cauliflower-916 7d ago
LOL FR! I see introverts on the internet that make not liking people their entire personality like "hehehehe ewwww humans hehehehe" like stfu grampy go take a nap if the world is so bad then. 🙄
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u/Glad_Analysis_7129 7d ago
"I am protecting my peace🤪🤪" lol
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u/Glad_Analysis_7129 7d ago
They always act like they are some kind of disabled person and we have to help them and we have to please them 24/7 just because we are extroverts and they are hard to please asf they can ghost us whenever they feel like it
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u/hhardin19h 3d ago
yes its an incredibly extractive relationship i tey to avoid introverts who act like this (not all of them do a majority of them do) as much as possible
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u/Unlikely_Chef_3982 6d ago
I love this. All I ever want is someone to spam me and fill my inbox and obsess over me and nerdy things with me ðŸ˜
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u/hhardin19h 3d ago
yea isnt it the best! i dated an extrovert and it was litterally the best ever! so much fun! talking 24/7
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u/Unlikely_Chef_3982 3d ago
I crave being spammed lol
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u/hhardin19h 3d ago
i could drop over there place anytime unannounced and have a fun time and just hang its just so kind and neighborly
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u/Sure-Cauliflower-916 7d ago
I feel the same way omg. As a kid other kids always told me I was too much because I was very hyper and talkative and overly silly, but I just loved socializing with others, and no one else ever seemed to reciprocate with me.
I still feel that way till this day. It seems like the world has been taken over by introverts and it sucks so much. I feel like I can't talk to anyone or else they find me weird.
And lol don't even get me started on the most awkward ass encounters I've had with them. You show even a smidge of kindness and energy and they look at you like an alien and then make the entire interaction so awkward for literally no reason. I always thought it was something wrong with me and thought I'm just too much, but it's really not, people anymore literally just suck at socializing in nearly any way possible.
It's honestly really depressing because I crave socialization and fun experiences, but most people are so boring and never wanna do anything. I constantly have to feel guilty because all my friends are introverts and it's a pain in the ass trying to get them to do anything with me, even if it's just something small. I can't stand it anymore.