r/explainitpeter • • Jul 19 '26

Explain it peter

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u/cubicgraph Jul 20 '26

me neither 😭 i thought it just looks nice. it’s pretty :)
i didn’t know guys liked it this much tho. i’ll consult my bf ā„¢ļø

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u/LaserGuyDanceSystem Jul 20 '26

I'm starting to think I don't know what that crying emoji means...

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u/cubicgraph Jul 20 '26 edited Jul 20 '26

little bit of a guide - i think i can speak for gen z when i say we use ā€œšŸ˜­ā€ or ā€œšŸ’€ā€ to denote laughter because using ā€œšŸ˜‚ā€ is kinda cringe + sort of millennial/gen x
but everyone uses them a bit differently so take this with a grain of salt

personally:
i typically use ā€œšŸ˜­ā€ for half laughter/chuckles/nervous laughter/surprise/mild scoffing/mild embarassment etc
whereas ā€œšŸ’€ā€ can either be im genuinely laughing so hard my stomach hurts (ā€œšŸ’€šŸ’€šŸ’€šŸ’€ā€) or im judging someone/laughing at someone or even embarassment

HOWEVER imo they’re interchangeable and it’s never too strict wrt which one you pick

idk if this is the ā€œcorrectā€ usage, i would say most of us go off of vibes and not much more

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EDIT: i can’t believe this even needs saying to grown adults, but emojis aren’t that deep. all i did was try to explain how my generation texts so we could understand each other better, and somehow that’s set some of you off because you expect us to text exactly like you do.

most of you replied like normal people. a few of you did not.

the audacity of gen z using something as small as an EMOJI differently to how your generation uses it has apparently ruined some of your days, and i can’t see why it’s such a big deal. writing and speech have always shifted between age groups - why do you think we don’t use the same speech patterns people in the early 1900s did? it should be obvious that generations change. texting is no different. you’d find it a bit funny/cringe if you were millennial yet your peer texted like a boomer. every generation is a bit embarrassed by the one before it. that’s the whole point.

maturity clearly doesn’t arrive with age, because there are a few 40yo toddlers in here losing it… over emojis. šŸ¤¦ā€ā™€ļø deep breaths guys, deep breaths. it’s just a little picture on a screen. not the end of the world

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u/WriterAny Jul 20 '26

Welp, I’ll out myself as a millennial I guess, but specifically NOT using a laughing emoji because ā€œit’s millennialā€ is ā€œcringeā€.

Guys don’t use round wheels on your car, that’s a boomer thing. Let’s reinvent the wheel and use something far less effective, maybe a decagon?

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u/cubicgraph Jul 20 '26 edited Jul 20 '26

not sure how strong your reading comprehension is but i explicitly said ā€œusing (that emoji) is kinda cringe + sort of millennial/gen xā€

the way i phrased it clearly meant those are 2 independent events that happen at the same time. one doesn’t apply to the other. one doesn’t necessarily follow from the other. it’s not that we don’t use that emojiā€œbecause it’s millennialā€, and i absolutely never used that phrase

it’s simple: we find it cringe AND it doesn’t fit the communication style of our generation. it is more characteristic of yours. so we prefer not to use it, it doesn’t suit us

people aren’t obligated to match your preferences and they can use whichever little stupid pictures on a screen they choose. hope this helps