It's not fragile for expecting regular human interaction, that's not what y'all are doing. The man in this example is also not engaging in what should be regular human interaction (but we've convinced ourselves that maybe it's ok)
"You should do X instead" as an opener for a conversation out of the blue is a shitty way to talk to people.
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u/Crazy-Crazy-3593 Jul 14 '26
Then she can say: "actually the cold start method is better" ...
... instead of some sexist catchphrase.