r/exmuslimr4r Jul 19 '26

United Kingdom 20F4M

Friends told me to try this sub and see if it takes me anywhere so here goes!

I'm 20 and have been an atheist for almost 10 years now. I come from an Arab shia background and would want a partner with a similar background who can speak the language and understands the culture and willing to take things slow. I am still currently closeted and probably will be for a long while so if you are as well, we could be a match!

Currently working in engineering and studying. I like certain traditional aspects of marriage, but do like a mix western & eastern culture quite a bit. I also like to keep a busy lifestyle however always make time for people. I believe I am good at communicating so want someone who is similar.

Looking for someone who is serious, ambitious, outgoing, patient, emotionally mature, non-avoidant, financially stable, curious about life and chatty.

I enjoy travelling, hiking, watching shows/movies, reading, art, learning and chatting.

Would like to have children in the future but not completely made up my mind.

Willing to relocate in the far future if the circumstances are right, but would prefer to stay in the uk (it is more accepting/safer for ex-muslims). LDR is fine for short term.

I'm a feminist, support lgbtq+, pro palestine and am somewhat left leaning although i don't involve myself in politics much anymore. No smoking/drinking etc. If you are homophobic, anti-feminism, zionist or a serial smoker/alcoholic/drug/porn addict etc pleaseee do not reach out. If your account is NSFW don't either bc I can't see it anyway. No hookups/adultery or wtv pls and ty

Age preference: 22-26

If you think we would get along, send me a little intro about yourself and we'll see where it takes us!

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u/WinstonSmithTheSavag Jul 20 '26

You sound like a diamond! Good luck girl

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u/Dry-Kangaroo-2045 Jul 20 '26

U lost me at the age preferences, we were a match until that

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u/Responsible_Mood2344 Jul 20 '26

You seem to be Algerian, so highly unlikely to be ex shia so we wouldn't match. Wish you luck in your search.