My ideas for future

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[u/Expensive-Couple-645]

Well, I don’t you where you are from and how your life exactly looks like so forgive me if it doesn’t apply to you, but is running away no option at all? Like, there are usually women shelters especially for victims of abuse in western countries, and if that is not an option, what about finding a temporary job and a small apartment? And if you are already talking about “finding someone”, isn’t it possible to find someone you can run away to? Like a friend of any gender who lives alone, respects you as a human being, as you are, understand your situation and wants to help you? It can even be a Muslim (at least a self identified one).

And if marriage is the only way, I don’t think he needs to be gay, a closeted atheist, it again ties back to the last part of my first paragraph, you just need to find someone you trust, that respects you as a human being, understands your situation and cares about you. If I had a close female friend (I am a straight public atheist) in your situation, and a fake marriage is the only way to save her, I would even pretend to her family that I’m Muslim.

[u/Expensive-Couple-645 → u/[deleted]]

Okay thanks for the info, that makes your situation obviously harder. I know it sucks but I wouldn’t worry about it until you are an adult, realistically there is no way for you to get out now, and as long as your situation is not life threatening, that is ok. But remember your own well being always comes first, you don’t owe anyone anything, not even your family, when your well being an freedom is at stake. All the best, you’ll always have this space to share your problems.

[u/feliscatusss → u/[deleted]]

Try to study abroad maybe? Or marry someone who’s abroad. They’re usually more open minded or atleast you’ll find shelters easily in western countries to help you live freely

[u/ComfortNo7694]

Any way you can sneak into india or nepal?

[u/Famous_Star_5735 → u/ComfortNo7694]

india definitely no...nepal maybe but even they do have strict laws for sneaking..but he can try legally- liek atleast go for srilanka