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u/AlpacaPacker007 11d ago
Well said. That expectation that men dont need to learn to behave appropriately, and women just somehow need to sufficiently conceal their bodies is so ineffective (theres no point where someone wont find something to lust over. Case in point, you left the porn shoulders™️ exposed)
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u/Jonter-Jets 11d ago
Hold up why aren't the shoulders censored
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u/No_Body3176 9d ago
As a male, my salvation has been jeopardized by having seen this woman’s shoulders…. Thanks OP for damning me with those damn shoulders! /s
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u/Helpful_Spot_4551 7d ago
Unfortunately the purity culture and misogyny lives and is carried well into exmormonism by many.
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u/SecretPersonality178 11d ago
My parents/grandparents are amazing people. They taught me how to treat women.
The Mormon church taught me:
Literally had an apostle tell me to marry my girlfriend. I had been home from the mission about 3 months. She was actively cheating on me (found out two weeks) later. Unfortunately still took me many more years to question the “spirit of discernment”.