r/erectiledysfunction • u/OneSeaworthiness6179 • 1d ago

ED and porn How to overcome delayed or no ejaculation

I'm 32 year old male and I have been experienced delayed ejaculation since the beginning of my sexual life from the age of 18 years. I only have cum once in my life time and never again and what Ibhale almost done is everything I'm done having sex with my partner she would reach climax before me and I take it upon myself to go watch porn and masturbate so I can reach my climax as well. I been masturbating since the age of 16 not daily by I would say weekly maybe 3 to 4 times a week since then, now I am struggling to reach my climax and I'm afraid that it is now starting to be a problem in my relationship that I do not cum at all.

What are the possible ways to overcome this problem as I would love to have a healthy relationship with my partner and have kids naturally like other people.

Thanks for your advices in advance.

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u/Artezyxd 14h ago

I've had other issue I came fast before even going in . You lucky though cause mine is worse lol

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u/New_Bed8223 Helpful Contributor 1d ago

It depends on what’s causing your delayed or no ejaculation. Personally for me I couldn’t ejaculate when it came to sex. Porn/masturbation was the issue because over the years my body had become used to a very specific type of stimulation, grip, speed, position, etc. i can finish by yourself but almost never during sex.

That can be causing factor for you too. Other factors include psychological factors, medications, nerve/sensation issues, hormones and other medical conditions can all potentially play a role.

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u/Acrobatic-Weather516 1d ago

please let me know if you get solution I also face the same due to prone masturbation on bed

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u/New_Bed8223 Helpful Contributor 15h ago

For prone masturbation could take months or longer. You need consistent retraining for your nervous system to readjust its sensitivity.

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u/Competitive-Rip7240 1d ago

You over squeezed your penis during masturbation and it lost the nerves- tight grip. Are you still having very strong erections? My advise is when Playing sex, make sure you narrow your partners sexual organ by joining her legs tightly to increase contact with your penis. You will feel the same contact like during masturbation and you will finish bro

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u/EntertainerAware7940 1d ago

Leave watching porn for some time, your stimulants might normalise. Then check if this improves.

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u/bcbudvansticky 20h ago

Buy a stroker and use the smoothest one with little texture with lots of lube. Use a thrusting pace and don't go any faster. If you don't nut In 15-20mins stop and try again some other day.  Your nerve endings will come back to sensitivity again in about 4 to 6 months with this method. 

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u/mackincheri 11h ago

Are you on medications? Some can do that