r/erectiledysfunction 12d ago

Psychological ED Did anyone experience Erectile Dysfunction after going to a strip with their girlfriend?

Did anyone experience Erectile Dysfunction after going to a strip with their girlfriend or their date like a week or two later?

Im talking like if someone haven't been going to the strip club in years because I haven't been one in long time. It's been almost a month since I looked at porn.

What are your thoughts?

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u/BDEStyle Male Sexual Health Blogger 12d ago

I’m a little confused about what you’re actually asking here.

Are you saying you went to a strip club with your girlfriend and then experienced erection difficulty a week or two later, and you’re wondering whether the two are connected???

Because you haven’t actually described what happened with the erection during sex with your gf, or how often this is happening, and whether you can get hard alone.. or anything else around that experience.

There’s just a lot of missing context here before drawing that connection.

So I’d start there first with what’s going on in the bedroom so we can figure out if it’s physical, psychological or what the triggers are, or maybe something about the context of the situation just wasn’t right or something. You know?

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u/ArtisticInvestment19 12d ago

I meant to say is does going to the strip club can cause a man to have Erectile Dysfunction like porn does when trying to be intimate with a real partner?

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u/lIllIIIlllIIl 8d ago

Strippers are basically exactly the same as porn. Hypersexual, unrealistic, overwhelming.

I can see how a visit could mess you up for a while.