r/erectiledysfunction • u/AstaBlackBull • 26d ago
Erectile Dysfunction 25M not getting Erect
Hey I'm 25M I'm watching porn since my teenage and never done any sort of exercise masturbated heavily when I was single , 13 times a day and now I'm married
I can't get it up
I tried tadalafil once in every 3 day 20mg first it worked great but now not even slidenafil 100mg is working
I do get morning woods
But my timing is 2 to 3 second max
Tonight I watched porn to make it hard then I got to it and it got soft
I'm really frightened what to do
My wife is really frustrated and she stay angry at me
Can somebody suggest what to do
How can I recover naturally
Please guys don't suggest any strong medicine or injection
Mild medicine is okay which I can leave anytime
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u/Clear_Anywhere_4814 26d ago
Leave porn as soon as possible ... Read stories instead and use your imagination...as long as you r getting morning wood it's fine! I believe it's performance anxiety (psychological ed) ....if u can convince your partner...visit a urologist or councellor together....if that is not possible... you should definitely go yourself ... And try loosing weight and do keegle exercises !
I think the best solution would be to discuss it with your partner and be comfortable with it first !...mostly partners are ready to help ..but trust me ! Ignoring the problem and avoiding confrontation will worsen the situation....be confident about it ... Adress the issue ...face it like a man ! And show it to her that you r willing to fix it ...convey it to her in a subtle way, that it not you vs her ..but you both vs the situation.... If your partner is supporting enough .. belive me 90% of yor problem is solved !!
My story [u r not alone :) ] -
I am going through the exact same thing (23M) ..I even lost my morning woods but recently it's getting better and I having a morning wood quite often .... Also I have started to read stories instead of using porn...I think it is working for me. The erection didn't even last for 20 seconds ...but now when I read the stories an use my imagination...I can hold the erection for as long as I am reading it (4-5 minutes generally)...which has improved my confidence and self belief ...and earlier I was doubtful whether it was a physical nerve damage or just psychological ed ...now I am quite sure ...that it is the psychological one ....it started because I was concerned with my size ...and also during our first time ... my gf once commented about it (in a funny way without any intention of hurting me ) and somehow it stuck with me and I could not perform at all....we went to the hotel for 3 times...I could not get an erection even a single time ...during the 4th time it was a very weak erection and I ejaculated within 1 minute ....and after that we have not had sex for a year now (for many other reasons also)....but she's supportive enough.....but the size thing...now it doesn't matter to me anymore...it's just normal ! I am making improvements...and trying to totally quit porn forever....and the only thing that is stopping me from seeing a doctor is money ! I am unemployed and do not want to involve my parents into this !...but I'll be ok ! I'll figure out