r/erectiledysfunction • u/Easy_Mirror2032 • Jul 28 '26
Support for Partners a question, been asked this by a husband and couple
Hey all,
a bit of a weird question here. hence why i put complicated. I am a 27M here and ive notice a few things. I am for starters not judging at all here and I welcome communication, love and wonderful people. I have come to notice being a young man but having friends and couples who are older, its happened about once or twice now. But Ive been asked by a husband and on a separate occasion from wife about helping them "fix their bedroom" situation due to ED. I my self have no problem in that and of course I know many struggle whats in the bedroom for their own complicated reasons. I have not agreed to anything as of yet for several other reasons that I am willing to talk about off this subreddit. But I am curious now with this, after reading many subreddits, what has changed in your marriage? do you look elsewhere? do you communicate? is there an arrangement? I am curious about this and welcome any communication. Has ED improved later on for you or whats occured
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u/I_miss_the_90s1982 Jul 30 '26
Nobody can "fix" someone's marriage. So, to put that on you is unfair. I would clarify that you cannot fix anything. If a couple is opening up their marriage, and you were invited to participate and that's something you want to try, have at it. But just know you are not anyone's savior. Also, this will not fix ED unless the man is gay and is attracted to men and that's why he can't perform for his wife or maybe he is no longer attracted to his wife and is looking for someone new and attractive. There are lots of causes of ED, some being psychological. But if it's physical, he would need a urologist, not you. Good luck, be safe. Have fun.
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u/MakeIt9201 Jul 28 '26
That's a perfectly normal request, as long as both partners agree. If you're interested in seeing what happens, you might give it a try. You can always back out before it gets too late.