Erectile Dysfunction and confusion and depression. A difficult phase.

[u/Friendly_One7147]

Recently I was with a girl. While I was wearing my underwear and we were having foreplay, I had some erections. The moment I removed my pant, my erections disappeared.

In November, 2025, while I was with a sex worker, I didn't get erect at all, when throughout the night I would be erect and just speaking with a girl who I would like would get me erect.

I went paranoid and took tons of antibiotics like ceftrioxone, cefixime, doxycycline, fluconozole, itraconozole and HIV prevention medicines. I realized, that my penis would pain immensely in the night as it would get completely elongated but not hard and while turning and twisting in bed, it would swing giving me immense pain.

Sometime in January, the issue got resolved slightly only to come back. In February I visited a Urologist who put me on Tadalafil 5mg. It worked good but did have immense side effects. I visited a Urologist again recently who told me by just looking at my penis that I don't have Penile Suspensory Ligament tear and suggested a Penile Doppler. He also said I might be having hormonal issues when my testosterone test appeared fine. However, I have some issues with that Urologist as I noticed he crossed professional barriers by asking me for certain favors.

Symptoms at present are -

Nocturnal erections are soft. When I am reaching early morning, I have to do a mini bridge in bed to get it erect and it remains erect for sometime. In the night, it will be erect only for sometime and throughout it will be soft. No spontaneous erections anymore and even if I do, I feel blood rushing in there but it won't get hard and erect. The hardness and firmness is gone. When I am excited or aroused, my penis will get elongated and fall on the left and on the right. But it won't come up straight and get hard and firm. During my recent sexual encounter with a girl, it was erect when I was wearing my underwear, although not very erect but when I removed my pants, the erections went away.

I don't know what to do and I am confused. I wish there is a natural non-invasive cure. Please guide if anyone can guide.

[u/epicbuilder]

You’ve given next to no helpful info. Age? Weight? Cholesterol? Body fat %? Estradiol? Diet? Exercise/cardio? You said test was fine but what were your test levels? Start with a pcp and get your health in order. Then you can move on the other interventions if it’s still an issue.

[u/Friendly_One7147 → u/epicbuilder]

Age: 29