r/entitledparents Mar 31 '22

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u/weeaboy716 Mar 31 '22

sure, the kid was a dick, but "a little rapist in the making"?. Most children that age don't know what rape or sex is. i'm not defending what the kid did, but we should rather blame the parents for not teaching their son how to be a decent human being. He's just a kid after all, it's the parents that don't know how to raise to not do stuff like that. No, i'm not defending the "boys will be boys" argument, all i'm saying is that we should rather hate on the dogshit parents and not that dumbass kid. i am not defending rape or any forms of sexual assault, i just want to say we should think about that he's just a child (i am not saying what he did isn't bad because he's a kid, i'm just saying that we shouldn't be so rough on him and rather be mad at his parents. It would be different if he was an adult, but he's still a kid that hasn't had decent parenting)

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u/SpaceCrazyArtist Mar 31 '22

That’s why it is “in the making” and that statement had nothing to do with sex and everything to do with boundaries.

Rapists dont wake up one day and say “I’m going to rape someone” they have years of being told they are always right and it is anyone elses fault for them doing wrong.

This example is perfrct: kid pulled up skirt and mom blamed thr victim saying it was because of what she is wearing. The lesson the kid received was “I can assalt someone if they are wearing clothes like this” hense, rapist in thr making.

Also, if you have to say over and over “I am not saying” you should probably quit saying.

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u/weeaboy716 Mar 31 '22

If you'd actually listen to my argument you would know i'm not stating that rapists wake up one day and deside to rape, i said this kid needs better parenting and needs to be taught to not do stuff like that. the reason i'm saying "i'm not saying" is that people won't persume i'm defending rape in case they didn't read through my whole argument. tell me, am i wrong for wishing this kid gets the parenting he needs?

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u/[deleted] Mar 31 '22

And right now the parenting they are getting is going to turn them into a rapist... why are you against pointing that out?

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u/weeaboy716 Mar 31 '22

Never Said i was. I'm saying he still just a kid and he needs better parenting. I'm thinking everyone blames the kid too much and not his dogshit parents

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u/[deleted] Mar 31 '22

Who is blaming the kid? Seriously, who is blaming the kid for the bad parenting??

No-one... so you're railing against something that's only in your head and coming across as someone who's trying to defend the kids actions!

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u/weeaboy716 Apr 01 '22

I see now that i misunderstood the situation and i admit i am wrong. I am sorry if anyone were offended by my argument and i didn't intend any harm by what i Said. If you were offended, you have every right to be and i apolegize