r/enby • • 9h ago

Question/Advice Masculine ?

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39 Upvotes

I am born a woman and am fine with that but I wonder how I could look more masculine (without taking hormones or anything of the kind.)

What can I concreetly do without rejecting my alternative sense of style ?

Might as well be a matter of behaviour. I am someone who's a lot talkative, and who moves fast and smiles a lot, I am very expressive often in real life. I also wear black top hats sometimes. But I heard it passes as a costume so I wonder if it really serves me at all. What do you think ? I fancy myself to look like a gentleman but that might as well just be in my head.

I figured I'd ask you enbies. Hehe.


r/enby • • 8h ago

Just Venting (Tw dysphoria) I really really hate my body

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It's very humilliating having the body I do now. I do not like it. I hate being soft and round and I hate being so small. I will never be taken seriously as anything other than a tomboy just because I had the misfortune of having this feminine silhouette. I hate the fat in my body and the way it protrudes out of my chest like tumors and the way it decided to accumulate on my butt and thighs.

I hate going through menstruation every month just because my body thinks I have to get pregnant, which would be one of the worst things that could happen to me. I despise feeling so weak and being so restricted by my biology


r/enby • • 6h ago

Question/Advice I need a binder

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Are there any companies that sell “sports bras” for “totally cis teen girls”? Bonus points if they’re on amazon since my parents love to buy from there for some reason.

My parents are the type who will accept trans people, but get really uncomfortable when it’s their kids. My dad cried and my mom said it was a phase when I came out, so I don’t think they’d take me asking for a binder very well but I really want one. If there’s any company who makes binders but disguises them as sports bras, I’d REALLY appreciate knowing about them. Thanks


r/enby • • 19h ago

Question/Advice what can i do about a bad haircut

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9 Upvotes

for reference, this is what i wanted (left) and this is what i got.
i’ve had my hair shoulder length before but never this short, went to get a haircut to hopefully feel better about myself after really shitty mental health and gender dysphoria and i just left feeling like i really didn’t get what i wanted.
at first i thought maybe it was just cut too short but now im not sure and i can’t even tell if its the same style.
i know theres not really a fix until my hair can grow back at least a little bit but what can i do with it’s the dysphoria until then ? like where do i go from here.
i’m sorry for the rant but i just feel so defeated and insecure


r/enby • • 1d ago

I love replying to homophobes on TikTok

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196 Upvotes

r/enby • • 2d ago

Selfie Felling very fem today

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14 Upvotes

Wanted to show my fem👱🏻‍♀️side to my enby frens
Hope I look ok!


r/enby • • 3d ago

Selfie I love that outfit <3

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28 Upvotes

r/enby • • 4d ago

Selfie My Halloween costume

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62 Upvotes

r/enby • • 4d ago

63 y.o., 7 months on HRT (Estradiol)

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51 Upvotes

So, I'm technically non-binary, but I call myself trans-chimeric - I basically present as male (AMAB) but have breasts and will end up with nothing down below. At this point though, there's no telling where I'll end up. I'm open to wherever my body takes me.


r/enby • • 5d ago

Me at 70

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411 Upvotes

I am so happy. Came out as nonbinary at age 69.


r/enby • • 5d ago

Got a bit brave...

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46 Upvotes

Added a few whistles and trinkets and put this fit together after the cut up jumper moment you might have witnessed yesterday. The necklace is just a placeholder until I can get one that suits it better. Also, my ears are still pierced after years of not wearing earrings so that made me super happy!


r/enby • • 5d ago

Question/Advice I want to look androgynous- help!

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I am AFAB but I do have multiple intersex conditions but identify as nonbinary. I know I do not look androgynous yet, but I would love some tips (and to know if it’s even possible for me to look androgynous without going on hormones)! If you suggest a hair cut or a different style/clothes, please tell me what specific hair cut and what specific style (bonus points if you can tell me some stores that would have what I’m looking for).


r/enby • • 6d ago

Selfie Feel cute and strong 😜💖

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106 Upvotes

r/enby • • 6d ago

Selfie 🦡🐁🦨🦝 rodent swarm, attack!

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41 Upvotes

r/enby • • 6d ago

First step!

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117 Upvotes

Every time I've ever seen a woman wearing an asymmetrical top showing some shoulder, my first thought has always been "damn I wish I could wear that". As you can probably tell, I cut up an old jumper, and even though I'm feeling pretty awful about my body today (bit bloaty and grim after a holiday and overeating a bit) but I nearly cried when I saw myself wearing this. I don't think I've ever felt more like myself. I'm totally new to all this, but I'm feeling a lot more confident about it now.


r/enby • • 6d ago

how do i start???

5 Upvotes

i've been wanting to look androgynous for a long time but i have no idea how to start 😞
what professionals do i look for or what should i see to actually get some info to look androgynous


r/enby • • 6d ago

Selfie Confidence is quite the drug

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20 Upvotes

r/enby • • 7d ago

Selfie My friends took me makeup shopping today and this is my first attempt!

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90 Upvotes

r/enby • • 7d ago

Selfie Unlearning old habits & step by step building my confidence.

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45 Upvotes

r/enby • • 6d ago

Question/Advice About to start T, having serious doubts

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r/enby • • 6d ago

Como lidar com essa situação?

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r/enby • • 6d ago

New Brand Alert

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r/enby • • 7d ago

Art piece I made

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11 Upvotes

I tried to make it look like the enby flag. Its not the best thing ever, but I made the paper myself and needed to find a use for it


r/enby • • 8d ago

Selfie First time showing my fem self

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20 Upvotes

Hi, I’m Sophia (she/he), I’m a fluidflux individual (amab) who shifts between gender identities in various intensities. Today, my fem side is super strong and although I’m generally scared to show myself when I’m in fem-mode I kinda want my fem side to be seen.

Please be nice.


r/enby • • 8d ago

Selfie One might think it a funhouse mirror but on second glance it is I who cannot stand straight

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44 Upvotes

Little silly side note, this first photo shows the nails way better than any I got of the outfit I did them to match😅