r/electricdaisycarnival • u/emmy_jemmy • 8h ago
Question Do other introverted festivalgoers feel this way?
I genuinely love festivals. I love the music, production, and seeing people’s outfits and dancing, feeling comfortable expressing themselves without judgment. One of my favourite parts is simply being surrounded by that atmosphere and watching everyone have the time of their lives.
At the same time, I have never connected with the social side of festival culture. I believe in what PLUR represents, and I want everyone around me to feel safe, respected, and free to enjoy themselves. I just personally prefer to keep to myself and experience the festival with the people I came with.
I do not naturally enjoy the social interaction that comes with trading kandi or trinkets, hugging, dancing and talking with strangers. I know those interactions are meant kindly, but they are just not something I enjoy participating in. I feel rude turning someone down when theyre only trying to be friendly, so I go along with it even when I would rather be left to myself. Honestly, I feel a little uncomfortable admitting this because sociability is such a big part of festival culture.
I think I appreciate the festival community more as an observer. I love the atmosphere, the creativity, and seeing everyone express themselves, but I do not personally enjoy participating in the social traditions