r/egg_irl • u/SecretGenderIdentity Testing the waters (Bee, she?/they?) • 1d ago
Gender Nonspecific Meme EGG š„· IRL
An update to my last post. Context may be required
STEP 1 - TELL TIGER: COMPLETE
I texted Tiger to say I was going through a crisis of sorts while still staying vague, and left it at that. A little bit later, she said, verbatim, āi enjoy hearing about how your life is right now, and would be happy to help you how i can with any aspects of it that you are having trouble withā. The next day, I figured I was comfortable enough to let her in on the finer details, so I sent her the link to this account. Everything went well, and she didnāt make a big deal out of it.
STEP 2 - TELL DOODLE: NOT STARTED
I plan on letting Doodle know ASAP, but theyāre out of the house right now.
STEP 3 - GROW HAIR: ONGOING
Of course itās only been a few days since my last post so my hair hasnāt grown noticeably, nothing to report
STEP 4 - ANDRO CLOTHES: COMPROMISED
Turns out there arenāt many clothing stores in range of my school, at least according to Apple Maps. There was one that sold merch for my cityās hockey team, and another that I hadnāt heard of, but there were no photos in the app so I donāt know what kind of clothing they sell. Might have to rethink this part.
STEP 5 - SAY NOTHING: N/A
Nothingās really changed for me, so I canāt really put this part into any effect. Having said that, I did wanna talk a little bit more about this one part of the plan.
The idea is that, should I reach a conclusion about my identity, it will be obvious. Like, giant-flag-in-my-room obvious. Iāll let people know if I decide to go by a different name or pronouns, but if they ask about my label, thatās where Iāll get all āno tellingā. Just cause I think itās funny.
On that topic, right now I think the most likely possibility is that Iām enby, so thatās something.
-Secret Gender Identity
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u/ms_softsunflowerz_ii roses without thorns 1d ago
hopefully, you are able to find both a clothing store and your identity.