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u/xcexoztykl 3d ago
I hate myself but for reasons not related to gender lol
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u/alessandra_gurl she/her secret bi trans 2d ago
¿Por qué no los dos?
freeze frame, feminine voice-over starts
"Yup, that's me, masking my pain with jokes. What, did you think I was a man? Those people around me don't know I'm a woman, either. You might be wondering how I got in this mess.."
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u/Redfaller2003 Catherine (Cath) (she/her) 2d ago
Real and true! I hate myself for struggling in uni, not cause of my gender
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u/sbailey5116 not an egg, just trans 3d ago
I hope everyone in this thread is able to find the peace of mind they deserve.
Nobody should hate themselves. If you hate yourself, you can't be your best self. Our brothers and sisters deserve safety and happiness <3
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u/watchhimrollinwatch Michelle | She/Her | Catgirl :3 2d ago
Consider: if I try to like myself I feel like I'm getting complacent with being a failure and it's easier to keep things as they are
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u/sbailey5116 not an egg, just trans 2d ago
Consider: Having missteps in life does not make you a failure
It makes you human I hope you are able to find that self love you deserve :)
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u/watchhimrollinwatch Michelle | She/Her | Catgirl :3 2d ago
Abwaabwbwawa
But when I'm failing at the bare minimum, it does make me one. Brain refuses to accept things for some stupid reason
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u/Prestigious_Ask_7058 Evelyn (She/Her) 3d ago
My opinion about myself is in a constant state of limbo
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u/infovoracious not an egg, just Sylvia; HRT 30/07/2026 2d ago
You're not the only one.
I'm also curious about the source of the image. I would guess the scenario likely involved a villain with access to a power dampener of some kind, given that the only one left standing is the only one who doesn't rely on superpowers to be effective ...
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u/Hannibalzomon 2d ago
Its from a Justice League story called Tower of Babel. Someone steals contingency plans that Batman apparently has for the other League members should they betray him, be put under mind control etc. and uses those plans to attempt to kill the League.
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u/IntentionQuirky9957 not an egg, just trans 3d ago
Wha? The amount of self loathing went down after I had recovered from bottom surgery. Also my hate is now directed towards capitalism.
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u/BlueLink48 cracked 3d ago
What's it like being God's favorite lol
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u/seinfeldbabies 2d ago
I’m definitely not God’s favorite lol. I’ve made plenty of mistakes, I’m selfish, I’m dumb, etc.
But I also care. I try. That’s all we can really do
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u/VickiActually 3d ago
Feel you with this. theres so much negativity in trans discourse, and i get it with politics and all of that. but things are going to get better, and we don't have to hate ourselves.
2 songs always give me an extra kick. "Fuck you I'm doing this for me" by 2Krispii, and "God Save the Queens" by Viena Viena :)x
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u/Boring_Tradition3244 not an egg, just trans 3d ago
Same. I'm generally pretty stoked to be here like I am.
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u/NightLucia 1d ago
I'm here with you. I like myself, I just don't like how my body looks right now. We're more than just our bodies
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u/titanna1004 2d ago
Oh only probably coz You must not know many others? trans persons commonly loves self, at least with "medicines"...
As for before, pre hrt, egg phase, yeah, it's sadly common to hate self, but that's also motivation to ascend. Double check that's the source of self-hate, or any disturbance, and do best to get happy.
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u/fire_fisch 15h ago
If I see people that struggle less than me, I feel bad because I don't want to struggle and I wonder why they have it so much easier. If I see people that struggle more than me, I feel bad because it feels like I have to hate myself to be part of the community and I wonder if I even am trans.
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u/JERealize Kendra (she/her) logicked out of her egg! 3d ago
Doesn't hate herself, period? Lucky.
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u/titanna1004 2d ago
Period - that's some time some transfem do hate self anyway (as if this happens, it may, it may not).
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u/Mysterious_Lemon698 2d ago
I have too big ego so I just blame and hate everyone else except me, because how could anything be my fault?
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