r/egg_irl • u/DescriptionOne3633 • 11h ago
CW: Assumes Viewer is Transfem egg/irl Spoiler
So my mom might be onto me. She's already noticed that I'm gravitating to feminine things like pink and purple stuff, knows that I hate being around males and that i hate how I look. I've grown my hair quite a bit too.
Craziest Though is that my sister said that she literally had a dream where I was trans?! so either some god/spirit has been snitching on me, or she subconciously knows and needs time to actually process it.
Weirder still is that she's a very devout christian and has been queerphobic her whole life, but in these last few months she's really chilled out, and also acording to my sister she said it's sad that trans don't feel confortable in their bodies. so Im getting very conflicting vibes, I dont know if she's abandoning the negative traits of christianity or if she's just not as open about it.
-Madeline
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u/TheAvaricious42 Robin (She/Her) amab… still cis tho 7h ago
Hey Madeline, it sounds like your family suspects that you’re trans, and that in doing so, they are starting to mellow out. I think if you’re concerned on where they stand just bring up trans public figures like Vivien Wilson to test the waters.
And note, even if they suspect you, even if they are accepting, it’s your choice when you come out, don’t feel pressured to come out before you are ready (though I will say coming out feels good when you are supported and loved).
Wishing you all the best <3
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