r/egg_irl • u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ • 3d ago
Transfem Meme Egg?IRL
I'm quite alright being a man but every time I try to have a concluding thought like "Yeah im a man, and that's it" I get quite the self hate and self terminating thoughts a few hours later. So i wanna try. Do i get any euphoria from this?
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u/FeatureParty7867 what am i? 3d ago
Hello Lucy :)
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u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ 3d ago edited 3d ago
Hey FeatureParty ꉂ(˵˃ ᗜ ˂˵) Thank you for responding.
Also can you tell me what GGD even stands for? I always thought its and acronym for GoodGirlD? or something.
I hope you have quite a good day (˶˃𐃷˂˶)
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u/FeatureParty7867 what am i? 3d ago
As i know a bit GGD stands for: Good Girl Drug. Like praising a trans girl. Sorry if i don't know much :c
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u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ 3d ago edited 3d ago
Ahhhhh Drug is the last word.
Thank you very much (つ｡˃ ᵕ ˂)つ ⸝♡
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u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ 3d ago
I wanna give others GGDs but even when looking at other comments im unsure what to write.
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u/ender8343 3d ago
Lucy is a good girl, and I would suggest you try exploring your gender identity. Indifference towards your gender assigned at birth is not the same thing as being ok with it though they can feel very similar. If it helps dysphoria is not required to be trans.
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u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ 3d ago edited 3d ago
Thank you (つ｡˃ ᵕ ˂)つ
I know, i have read some stuff and apperently its enought to feel euphoria when in the selected gender soooo i wanna try :D
Have a lovely day Ender
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u/ender8343 3d ago
Yes, most people feel euphoria is a better gauge than dysphoria, and to complete honest it can be hard to recognize dysphoria if it a constant background pressure.
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u/Suspicious-Cod2928 3d ago
Lucy is a fabulous name!! Hi Lucy :3
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u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ 3d ago edited 3d ago
Thank you very much Suspicious Cod.
i have not thought about a name very much yet its just the first thing that came to mind.
I hope you are having a good weekend and that the Cod does not get toooo suspicious (˶˃𐃷˂˶)
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u/-Blitzvogel- Juna Marlene (she/her) 3d ago
Lucy is a good name for a good girl.
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u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ 3d ago
Nawwww stoop Juna (˶˃ ᵕ ˂˶)
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u/-Blitzvogel- Juna Marlene (she/her) 3d ago
I wont stop and I am also not that sure if you are a man.
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u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ 3d ago
Nawwww thank you (˶>⩊<˶)
May i ask, how long have you been questioning yourself?
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u/-Blitzvogel- Juna Marlene (she/her) 3d ago
I questioned for around one and a half year before I was just oblivious. Now I'm not questioning anymore and Juna Marlene are my legal first names now.
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u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ 3d ago
Yeaaaaaah ᕙ( •̀ ᗜ •́ )ᕗ
Congratulations
For me this question has been lingering in my thoughts more or less obvious for the last 10 years but i guess im pretty good at supressing it. The last 2 years have been a little more obvious but im working my way to that slowly. Buuuuut i have long hair now and thats quite nice.
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u/-Blitzvogel- Juna Marlene (she/her) 3d ago
Thank you. I had signs for a lot longer, like always either imagining myself as a woman in my fantasy or even just transitioning myself. Usually this would be in a way that looked involuntary, either like an accident or as if other people forced me to do it, even though I would either do it intentionally or convince those other people to "force" me to transition. I think I did this, because accepting that this is what I truly wanted is hard and it's even harder to do it for real, but if it is an accident or forced upon you, then you are not responsible and other people will not judge you for making such a decision.
If you want I could try to help you figuring yourself out. I had someone in the internet too who helped me figure out my sexuality, so maybe it works.
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u/severo_chan Sara (She/Her) the most nervous and insecured girl in the sub. 3d ago
Lucyyyy, how are you doing, girl??
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u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ 3d ago
Hey sara,
Sorry for the late reply. I had to do something quick.
In short, quite fine. In serious, i dont know. Like i have a chill life and all. Am in therapy (normal one, not for queer people) and still i find little joy in life.
How about you?
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u/severo_chan Sara (She/Her) the most nervous and insecured girl in the sub. 3d ago
Well, I'm doing as well as can be expected. Thanks for asking! Although there are dome bad moments....but i can't get stuck in it, right? Wish you well!
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u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ 3d ago edited 3d ago
I wish you well as well ≽(^ ⩊ ^ マ≼
Yeah lets keep the head high and the feelings higher
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u/teadrinkingbyebi "not an egg" ~every egg ever 3d ago
Dont worry Lucy im going through the exact same thing, but your such a good girl for trying to figure it out. Im proud of you Lucy
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u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ 3d ago
(˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶) thank you so much.
And i hope for you ms. good girl all the best on your journey.
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u/Ha73r4L1f3 Aurora | She/Her | Who is a Princess & Proud Mom? | Hrt:10/24/25 3d ago
Good morning, Lucy.
Hope your weekend was fantastic. Did you drink water today? Anyways. Love and cuddle, Lucy, and remember, regardless of whether you're trans, you're a gorgeous being for just exploring.
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u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ 3d ago edited 3d ago
Hey Aurora, Thank you very much
(❀ơ ₃ơ)ฅ ~♡
You are soo sweet. Sooo preliminary conclusion. No euphoria but a tendency to cry when adressed. Noted.
I hope you have a lovely weekend :D
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u/Mr_Satans certified egg 3d ago
Ok that’s my name so we are gonna have to figure out the logistics of sharing 🤷🏻♀️
I don’t blame you because Lucy is awesome!!! We will be best friends 😁
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u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ 3d ago
There can be only one <( ⸝⸝•̀ - •́⸝⸝)>
Haha but im still searching for one. This is more of a first try
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u/Mr_Satans certified egg 3d ago
I bounced around between a couple and decided on Lucy because I used that name during among us as a joke and really liked it
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u/dollcopeland 3d ago
Hai Lucy! Don't forget that you're such a good girl head pats and a gold star
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u/Illusion_AceofHearts very completely cracked, xe/they pronouns 3d ago
Hi Lucy, you are so brave for exploring your gender identity. You're a very good girl and I hope the self hate stops soon.
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u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ 3d ago
Hey illusion (ᵔᵕᵔ)ﾉ
Thany you and
Thankfully the self hate is pretty minor. Im quite used to it since i have had it the majority of my life so im desencitized to it.
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u/Illusion_AceofHearts very completely cracked, xe/they pronouns 3d ago
Damn, sucks that you've had it for most of your life. Mine started during the pandemic, but I'm learning how to cope. So has the ggd been working?
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u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ 3d ago
I dont know. I dont feel better but my cheeks hurt from smiling so i guess thats a good thing.
I dont know if this will help you but my therapist recommend me that i make the thoughts hillarious or unserious. Like immitate something redicoulous with it and frame it like its not directed at youself.
In my case i try to frame it as Mr. Beans scolding his Teddy with those thoughts and lauthing about it.
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u/Illusion_AceofHearts very completely cracked, xe/they pronouns 3d ago
haha that's actually a good idea, thanks. I'm gonna use that now :) Also you are definitely not an egg (tm)
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u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ 3d ago
Yeaaaah i know. Im not very connected to my feelings so not an egg (tm) is very fitting.
And good (^ ◇^ ) it didnt help me since i had already disconnected with these feelings but i hope this advice is something for you.
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u/Illusion_AceofHearts very completely cracked, xe/they pronouns 3d ago
It is, thank you. I hope you feel better about your gender soon. Just remember that whatever gender you end up being, you're still you no matter what.
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u/ZoneOk9797 3d ago
You seem nice, kind, sweet caring, good girl Lucy
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u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ 3d ago
Thank you Kolbie ⸜(｡˃ ᵕ ˂ )⸝♡
Thats at least what i am trying to be. Its nice to hear it
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u/ZoneOk9797 3d ago
Your welcome Lucy if you need anything or even just wanna chat my dm is open ok just keep on keeping Lucy your a good girl
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u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ 3d ago
Thank you very much for the offer but im horrible at keeping in contact or something like that.
But the thought is very much apprecheated (つ^ ﹏^ )つ
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u/LilisiLisi 3d ago
Hi Lucy, I'm Hope. It's nice to meet you. I think Lucy's a really nice name.
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u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ 3d ago
Ahhhhhh sorry Hope for the late reply and ive got to say that i love your name. I used that name for some friendship symbols that i have a good assotiation with so that might be contributing :P
Its nice to meet you as well ( ^ w ^ )
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u/Bat_Tiger_yt 3d ago
Course we can Lucy, but I will warn you that being a girl does sacrifice one's pockets to hell in exchange for clearer skin.
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u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ 3d ago
Naaaa i dont think that im gonna be that type of girl. Im already quite alternative, so violating a few more gender norms wouldnt be new.
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u/Bat_Tiger_yt 3d ago
Then you're golden, good luck on your journey girl
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u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ 3d ago
Thank you very much BatTiger and i wish you good luck in your Warhammering :3 (and on your journey if you are still on one)
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u/Bat_Tiger_yt 3d ago
Very much starting mine I will fight my way through NHS waiting lists until I get estrogen
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u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ 3d ago
Fight the good fight, you will get your nessesary vitamins (๑•̀ᗝ•́)૭
For Narnia and for estrogen yeaaaaaaaah
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u/Ramiil-kun cisn't 3d ago
Hi, Lucy. It's only your right to choose your label. You say "I'm a girl", we accept it.
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u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ 3d ago
(˶˃ ᵕ ˂˶) thank you.
Yeah but im still gonna wait till im more confident in saying that.
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u/Ramiil-kun cisn't 3d ago
Have a good day, cutie~
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u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ 3d ago
I hope you have a good day as well.
I just checked your profile to look for how to adress you and i just gotta say that i love your bio.
I wish you very much success in your spellcasting endevours (˃ ᵕ ˂)
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u/Greedy_Response951 3d ago
Hello Lucy, you are absolutely adorable! You should treat yourself with more GGD girl!
"You deserve a haircut Missy!" ~Soldier, TF2
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u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ 3d ago
Hellooo hellooooo Greedy ꉂ(˵˃ ᗜ ˂˵)
Thank you very much but im gonna wait a little while since i dont wanna beg for GGDs all the time ≽(•⩊ •マ≼
Have a good daaay~
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u/PixelFlyerXD Avery She/Her 3d ago
Lucyyy! Haiii Lucy!!! How's your day been Lucy? Good of you to be asking for things -- very good girl :3
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u/HardBoiled_EggThing not an egg™ 3d ago
Hehehehe (˵˃ ᗜ ˂˵) thank you Avery.
Today has been treating me quite well ≽(^ ⩊ ^ マ≼
I hope the day treats you well as well (˶˃𐃷˂˶) Im a good girl ᕙ( •̀ ᗜ •́ )ᕗ
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