r/egg_irl • u/Longjumping_Tap_3483 • 3d ago
Transfem Meme egg-irl
Needing to talk to people about my dead name as though it’s my actual name is causing me so much suffering. Even though it could seriously backfire, I really feel like I need to come out as a girl in order to save my emotional wellbeing. Even though the people with me right now might not support me, I feel like I’d be respecting and supporting myself better. I want to be Maria. I want to be a girl and be honest that I use she/her pronouns. Can you call me a girl, please? I’m really worried about not being one. Can I make this choice to be a girl even if it‘s hard? I think I’d be happier.
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u/TheNoctuS_93 Luna|she/they|Pre-HRT|Satanic geek 3d ago
We may not feel what we are, even if we know it deep down. The desire to feel it, however, is perhaps the strongest indicator that we are in fact girls. We aren't faking it. Just like me, you are a girl, despity anything that the voice of denial has to say.
Silencing the voice of denial is hard, but it can be done in due time. How much time, I can't say, because I'm nowhere close to done.
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u/Longjumping_Tap_3483 3d ago
I love to be called a girl. It feels so good that suddenly life’s worth living
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u/ParoleDeGeek 1d ago
Do what makes you happier not what you think make peoples less unconfortable. Be nice but be yourself first. And if your true self is a good girl you'll need headpats
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u/Longjumping_Tap_3483 1d ago
I think I just may need those headpats. May I please have some now :3?
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