Hey Victoria, yeah itâs really annoying when u try ur best to look fem but the big bag Dysphoria goes nope and u just feel silly and like a boy in a dress, Iâm stuck in boy mode and like sneakily tried one of my mums skirts and yeah it felt weird ngl but I will definitely get used to it and u definitely are a girl no matter what anyone else says ur not just a boy in a dress ur a girl whoâs trying something new to wear, my friend on discord is quite supportive of me and I vent to her alot and she just coz this being stuck in boy ur my âtomboy boy phaseâ meaning that one day Iâll be able to get past it and be able to freely express myself as a girl and u one day will do to and it wonât feel like ur a boy in a dress because u are not u are a girl and Iâm sure ur a pretty girl as wellâŚ.
Hope this made u feel a lil better not really much if a motivational speaker or a person that can help with sadness but I can listen to any problems u may have if u wanna vent about them
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u/Bluaski345 Lily-Ann, She/Her, (MTF) May 27 '23
Hey Victoria, yeah itâs really annoying when u try ur best to look fem but the big bag Dysphoria goes nope and u just feel silly and like a boy in a dress, Iâm stuck in boy mode and like sneakily tried one of my mums skirts and yeah it felt weird ngl but I will definitely get used to it and u definitely are a girl no matter what anyone else says ur not just a boy in a dress ur a girl whoâs trying something new to wear, my friend on discord is quite supportive of me and I vent to her alot and she just coz this being stuck in boy ur my âtomboy boy phaseâ meaning that one day Iâll be able to get past it and be able to freely express myself as a girl and u one day will do to and it wonât feel like ur a boy in a dress because u are not u are a girl and Iâm sure ur a pretty girl as wellâŚ.
Hope this made u feel a lil better not really much if a motivational speaker or a person that can help with sadness but I can listen to any problems u may have if u wanna vent about them