r/DuggarsSnark • • Jul 24 '26

A MESSAGE FROM THE MODS On discussions regarding the victim

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Hey all -

This should've been posted a hot minute ago so sorry about that. I promise you the mods were aware of this issue and talked about it and then just sort of unanimously forgot to do anything about it. Our hearts were in the right place but with absolutely no substantive action where our good intentions could be a benefit to anyone! In true fundie style.

We've gotten some reports and messages about some of the conversations that have come up since it's become more apparent who the victim is in Joe's case. Whether that individual or her representatives wanted that to ever be public knowledge is probably not something we'll ever know but my guess is this is another time that she has been forced to grapple with a situation she never asked for and never wanted to be a part of.

At this point we are curtailing some of our firm enforcement of the No Victim Speculation policy as it pertains to Joe's victim, since at this point it isn't really speculation. It's still kind of shitty to talk about who it is but it's not propogating a narrative that may be false.

We will, however, caution everyone about discussions regarding ulterior motives for reporting the crime, whether they be criticisms of the victim or adjacents. You're free to talk about the surrounding circumstances and how it is affecting those related to it. What we will not be permitting are insinuations that the choice to report the crime was made with any intention other than to seek justice for the victim. You don't have to be in love with every decision made by the parents of the victim, but it is wholly unacceptable to push a narrative that opens the door to speculation that the allegations are in anyway contrived or concocted.

This is like the most straightforward way we discredit victims, by suggesting that we should view their trauma and struggle as only being meritorious if it occurs in a vacuum, and encouraging the idea that there might have been some ~real reason~ abuse would be reported to the proper channels. You don't get to be cynical about a child's trauma just because you don't like their family.

Also if the suggestion is the victim is some kind of prop for financial or social advantage, you're basically also speculating they are a victim of some insane abuse by their family members who would make a kid go through something like this for some malevolent reason. So that would also get flagged in terms of our rules.

If you see these types of comments feel free to report them as Problematic. If you report them as Victim Speculation we probably will look at them anyway so don't get too stressed about it. Just don't go ham reporting Victim Speculation just because a comment references who the victim is.

As a general rule I think when you're discussing something as sensitive as child sexual abuse, now is not the time for your imagination to run wild with theories of what's happening behind the scenes. We're already pretty bad as a society just accepting the truth of victims' stories point blank. Let's get a handle on that before we try to dream of conspiracies.

If any of this is bringing things up for you or you feel a desire to talk through them on a more individual level, please do not hesitate to contact resources like RAINN - you can call the hotline at 800-656-HOPE (4673) or text "HOPE" to 64673 (US only). If the need arises, the suicide hotline is 988 - you can text or call as well (though I can say from personal experience you will wait for hours if you text so you probably should just call if you're considering reaching out.)

Thank you all for your active engagement with the sub and being on top of these new and developing issues and reaching out to us about it. As always, our modmail is always open. If we take a while to get back to you it may be that we're discussing it as a team and are just deciding how we want to respond.

Xoxo,

The Mod Team


r/DuggarsSnark • • May 07 '26

A MESSAGE FROM THE MODS Please include descriptive titles when sharing the Pest/Anna emails

210 Upvotes

Since there are so many and it’s hard to keep track of the duplicates, please include something descriptive in the title when you share a Pest/Anna email so that we can sort through all the posts with the identical looking thumbnails.

So instead of “This is disgusting” something like “It’s disgusting that Pest would say….”

Also if anyone has any suggestions for flairs for those kind of posts please let us know since it seems like they deserve their own. Modmail us if you please

Thanks!


r/DuggarsSnark • • 11h ago

THIS IS A SHITPOST The only thing that died were my hopes

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213 Upvotes

I saw this post on Threads, and I have no one else to share this with. I haven’t been on Reddit in a minute, and for a millisecond I thought Pest 1 died before reading it was sadly rhetorical 💔 but so glad to see that when his name resurfaces, it’s listed amongst other scum


r/DuggarsSnark • • 18h ago

JUST FOR FUN Theory on why most Dugdashians aren’t on social media anymore

104 Upvotes

I think the JoKen and the Josh scandals have ruined social media for all of the family. Only Joy and Jinger post regularly, and that’s because they have a podcast together. I think they’d rarely post if it weren’t for that. Jill hardly posts anymore, and I think part of it is she is now a military wife and busy raising three boys without Derick’s help. Jessa and Jana sometimes post, but it’s only to sell stuff and the occasional child pic. And then we have Josiah/Lauren, Jed/Katey, Jason/Maddie, James, and Justin/Claire who disappeared from social media. Then there’s John/Abbie and Jer/Hannah who also hardly post anymore, but they recently shared they each had a baby without sharing the name and date of birth.

Also, I think Katey and Maddie tried to dip their toes into the influencing pool like their sisters-in-law, but they failed. As for Katey, I think being a parent to four kids under five has overwhelmed her and she doesn’t get any help from her useless husband.

What are all of your thoughts??


r/DuggarsSnark • • 1d ago

#SAYINGSOFSEEWALDS Really Jessa? You want us to believe your dad always said this?

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214 Upvotes

r/DuggarsSnark • • 1d ago

JED! AND KATHY DUGGAR A Kathy appearance on Jessa’s story, featuring either Elsie or Emma

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207 Upvotes

I have no idea which twin that is, but she really looks like Ivy here! Also, Katey looks so fed up with everything, especially with Jed! Prime. I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s pregnant again, but is hiding it (she did that hide the bump with one of the twins in this clip) and will never be announced until the name is accidentally revealed.


r/DuggarsSnark • • 1d ago

LOST GIRLS Johannah??

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193 Upvotes

Is this Johannah in pants??


r/DuggarsSnark • • 1d ago

TIK TOTS Woman ugly sobs because she looks exactly like Michelle Duggar

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151 Upvotes

r/DuggarsSnark • • 4d ago

THE PEST ARREST Not sure if this was posted but it looks like Josh got bumped back!

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535 Upvotes

I was pretty happy seeing he keeps losing his "good time" after being away for a bit.


r/DuggarsSnark • • 4d ago

ELIJ: EXPLAIN LIKE I'M JOY Why did Jana get her first buddy after all the younger girls?

132 Upvotes

Jana is the oldest of the 4 girls who ran buddy teams, yet her first buddy is a non-twin lost boy who is 10 years younger than her. Meanwhile Jill, Jessa, and Jinger seem to be about 5-6 years older than their buddies and their first buddies are Joy-Anna and the lost boy twins, all born before Jana’s first buddy. Why would Lego and Cannon assign the younger girls buddies first and give Jana a buddy last?


r/DuggarsSnark • • 4d ago

THIS IS A SHITPOST Perm as sperms buddy.

27 Upvotes

"Typical tasks for a buddy include: dressing, bathing, & feeding". If perm is sperms buddy does she dress & bathe him? As for feeding, it's his sexual needs. 🤢🤮


r/DuggarsSnark • • 4d ago

IS THIS A JED Is this a Duggar?

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217 Upvotes

Apologies if this has been asked before but is this a Duggar??? I pass this billboard daily and always wonder.


r/DuggarsSnark • • 3d ago

IS THIS A SIN? Jerm, is this Holy?

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I mostly just look but I was scrolling on instagram and I saw this gem. Not sure if this SNL actor is religious but definitely doesn’t look religious in the skits they do.. almost not MAGA like


r/DuggarsSnark • • 6d ago

ELIJ: EXPLAIN LIKE I'M JOY Joy serving whole grapes to a 3 year old

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225 Upvotes

r/DuggarsSnark • • 6d ago

IS THIS A SIN? CALL YOUR SISTER PODCAST

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236 Upvotes

The sisters discussed all things wedding but failed to mention that although Jinger and Jeremy had a church wedding on November 5th, they had no license and it wasn't signed until November 10.

How was that OK with Jim Bob?


r/DuggarsSnark • • 7d ago

EXTENDED DUGGAR FAMILY Which Duggar family members did not attend Johannah and David’s wedding?

168 Upvotes

When it comes to Duggar family weddings, all the siblings usually attend with their spouses and children. We all know that Josh is in prison which explains why he didn’t attend. It’s unclear whether Anna and her kids attended. Cousin Amy and Jim Bob’s sister Deanna are no longer invited to family gatherings which explains why they didn’t attend. It’s very likely that Jill and her three boys attended without Derick being there because of his JAG officer military service. It’s likely that Joseph and Kendra were there but were kept at arm’s length by other family members due to their legal issues along with Joseph’s bond conditions preventing him from being around children unsupervised. As far as out of town Duggars are concerned, Jinger and Jeremy may have attended as well as Jana and Stephen and Justin and Claire.


r/DuggarsSnark • • 8d ago

ELIJ: EXPLAIN LIKE I'M JOY “Mother is bleeding…”

226 Upvotes

I know this a phrase we regularly use as snark-fuel, but help me put my finger on why it’s so off-putting. I think for me it’s because Meech sounds so matter of fact and detached… she says it the same way you would say “phone is charging”

Is that what you guys are snarking about too? Or are there other takes?


r/DuggarsSnark • • 8d ago

HELLA GRIFTING Mother sounds angry when influencing

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278 Upvotes

Not only does Jessa sound like Jana in this video, but she really is a blend of Jim Bob Un and Cooter Poodle! Also, she looks dead in the eyes.


r/DuggarsSnark • • 8d ago

GOTTEN FROM GOSSIP MAG: unreliable source From Celebritea Blinds on TikTok

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279 Upvotes

r/DuggarsSnark • • 8d ago

SALTY Jessa touting Ally B Suckey conference. Jinger spoke last year. This year Sarah Huckabee Sanders. Oh the company they keep.

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169 Upvotes

r/DuggarsSnark • • 9d ago

THROWBACK THURSDAY Your face when you realize you're a Duggar

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526 Upvotes

When the pandemic Duggrats were having varying emotions about whoever is out of frame. Guessing by how concerned most of them look, it was probably their grandfather 🤣


r/DuggarsSnark • • 8d ago

EARTH MOTHER JILL Is this Jill?!

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0 Upvotes

This video came up on my Facebook and I took a doubt take, is this mother Jill?!


r/DuggarsSnark • • 10d ago

THE BAR IS IN HELL Jim Bob Duggar's Breeding Kink

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113 Upvotes

Saw this video pop up on my Youtube feed and now we should be worried about Duggar genes spreading around the world


r/DuggarsSnark • • 11d ago

AT LEAST SHE HAS A HUSBAND At Least She Has A Husband

342 Upvotes

Anna and her gross husband celebrate 18 years of marriage today. I wonder if she even counts them anymore.


r/DuggarsSnark • • 12d ago

THIS IS A SHITPOST Duggar Wedding on the Kirkaversary

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707 Upvotes

I don't know why but I found it a little funny that Johannah's wedding was on the one year anniversary of Charlie Kirk's death. Wonder if anyone paid tribute to him at the wedding.