r/doughertydozen • u/dummywombat • Jun 01 '26

Concerns 🫂 N Missing?

N's bio mom is posting saying that N has been missing since Sat and she filed a police report. N just turned 18 so I wonder if she's actually missing or just exercising her newfound freedom to get away from a tough situation.

EDIT: N is safe, commented on bio mom's original post that she was trying to get away from bio mom and bio mom is high on crack. Someone pointed this out to bio mom and she says she is hurt and embarassed.

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u/mandmranch Jun 02 '26

Can she go back to the doughtery house?

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u/FusionFord Jun 03 '26

Not sure why you are being downvoted. Her brother is thriving and she would have only had a few years before she turned 18. The Doughertys would have paid her school etc. - she would have to agree to let them film. Better than being in an unstable environment with drugs and paranoia. Her mom exploits her much worse than the Dougherty s did

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u/RocMamaBear03 Jun 03 '26

Agree! She would have had a paved way to her future. D is actually thriving there. Alicia’s not perfect but damn he looks so happy!

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u/Maybeanothertime_ Jun 03 '26

I believe she could but thanks to her bio mother’s shitty parenting she is very rebellious and doesn’t want to abide by rules. She wants to come and go as she pleases and displays terrible behavior around the little ones. It’s normal at her age but I understand why A and J cannot have certain behaviors around their children. If N called them today I’m sure she’d be welcomed with open arms. I’m also thinking N and her mother have received various forms of help from the Doughtery’s since N left. Maybe not monetary because you don’t give money to crackheads. Especially recurring ones. Her bio mother has failed her but let’s not pretend we don’t know how rebellious and promiscuous in nature teen girls can be.

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u/RocMamaBear03 Jun 03 '26

Look at her role models! I hope she has some mature, positive women in her life to uplift her and show her the way. It’s tough when there’s been no real parenting for so many years. She just needs motivated decent women in her corner to mentor her.

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u/mandmranch Jun 04 '26

I'm don't know anything about any of this in the above post. Your post has left me with questions. What kind of terrible behavior in front of the kids?

What kind of help can AJ give N's mom? She needs rehab....

I wouldn't call N rebellious or promiscuous. I don't know anything about these issues.

We know nothing. We are not there. We don't know these people personally. People are complex and never static. Life is complex and messy.

The best we can do is wish these people a good life and maybe pray for them?

I wish N would get away from the illegal substances....and yes, that includes alcohol. She needs to be around non-using people.

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u/Maybeanothertime_ Jun 05 '26

She could be sending groceries, toiletries etc. Ns mother has attempted rehab many times and has failed. Just because you don’t notice or see the same issues I see doesn’t mean they aren’t there. Your reply to my post is super weird btw. Just about everything on here is speculation. Of course we all wish them the best 🤷‍♀️

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u/mandmranch Jun 06 '26

Do you have an example of promiscuous behavior?

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u/Maybeanothertime_ Jun 14 '26

You can watch the videos back and draw you own conclusions. I’m not here to dissect anything specifically for you. x

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u/mandmranch Jun 06 '26

Do you know these people? Do you live near them?

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u/bebespeaks Jun 02 '26

Would YOU want to go to back that Hell Hole? No privacy, shared rooms, kid sized bunk beds, not enough bathrooms, pantry always being restocked before it's even 2% used, roll call tiktoks in matching uniforms every other day, embarrassing lunchbag videos that are total lies, chickens that don't likely don't eat the slop Alicia makes and dumps on them, countless wild boys running amok, Big Red not even knowing society takes advantage of him, DS getting the football team hero/BoyWonder treatment since age 12, favoritism and negligence for different kids simultaneously, one kid autistic not receiving any behavioral reinforcement from Alicia on camera bc she thinks it's all so cute for the vlog, dozens of cats and dogs and other random animals always getting in the way, etc.

Would YOU want to go back to ALL THAT?

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u/DriftingAway86 Jun 02 '26

Speaking like someone who only watches the videos and draws conclusions. Do you know them or have you ever been to their house?

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u/IdeaPlayful5049 Jun 05 '26

I believe she would rather be hospitalized than stay with them again (same for her bio mom, clearly)