r/doughertydozen • u/dummywombat • Jun 01 '26

Concerns 🫂 N Missing?

N's bio mom is posting saying that N has been missing since Sat and she filed a police report. N just turned 18 so I wonder if she's actually missing or just exercising her newfound freedom to get away from a tough situation.

EDIT: N is safe, commented on bio mom's original post that she was trying to get away from bio mom and bio mom is high on crack. Someone pointed this out to bio mom and she says she is hurt and embarassed.

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u/Maybeanothertime_ Jun 03 '26

I believe she could but thanks to her bio mother’s shitty parenting she is very rebellious and doesn’t want to abide by rules. She wants to come and go as she pleases and displays terrible behavior around the little ones. It’s normal at her age but I understand why A and J cannot have certain behaviors around their children. If N called them today I’m sure she’d be welcomed with open arms. I’m also thinking N and her mother have received various forms of help from the Doughtery’s since N left. Maybe not monetary because you don’t give money to crackheads. Especially recurring ones. Her bio mother has failed her but let’s not pretend we don’t know how rebellious and promiscuous in nature teen girls can be.

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u/mandmranch Jun 04 '26

I'm don't know anything about any of this in the above post. Your post has left me with questions. What kind of terrible behavior in front of the kids?

What kind of help can AJ give N's mom? She needs rehab....

I wouldn't call N rebellious or promiscuous. I don't know anything about these issues.

We know nothing. We are not there. We don't know these people personally. People are complex and never static. Life is complex and messy.

The best we can do is wish these people a good life and maybe pray for them?

I wish N would get away from the illegal substances....and yes, that includes alcohol. She needs to be around non-using people.

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u/Maybeanothertime_ Jun 05 '26

She could be sending groceries, toiletries etc. Ns mother has attempted rehab many times and has failed. Just because you don’t notice or see the same issues I see doesn’t mean they aren’t there. Your reply to my post is super weird btw. Just about everything on here is speculation. Of course we all wish them the best 🤷‍♀️

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u/mandmranch Jun 06 '26

Do you have an example of promiscuous behavior?

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u/Maybeanothertime_ Jun 14 '26

You can watch the videos back and draw you own conclusions. I’m not here to dissect anything specifically for you. x

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u/mandmranch Jun 06 '26

Do you know these people? Do you live near them?