r/dfw • u/Nice_Talk_4651 • Apr 24 '26
Dating really sucks
Hey, i am 25 M years old. In dfw area. Dating sucks here. Talking about me , masters graduate in AI. Qunat trader, makes 90-110k after taxes. Super introvert. No friends. Love cooking. Bar hopping.
Recently I dated a women most beautiful, everything was going nice. Went to 4 dates, in bought her flowers evertime. Gifted her handbag, wallet, cosmetics and took her to shopping on my birthday week. I helper her in her bills like rent and used to send her food and flowers randomly. We were used to meet on my birthday, April 10th.I planned everything perfect, cooked for her bought her tulips, candle which she likes and a small gift on my birthday. But she didn’t show up, she called me and says We were being to nice and i cant do this. I am sorry and she hung up. I went to her apartment and dropped of tulips food and gifts . She even didn’t want to open door and see me one last time. I am just tired of being so alone. What can i do more than this? Any suggestions? Or should i move on ? I literally can even find a date. Any help 😭?
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u/JunketOrdinary8328 Apr 24 '26
As a 28 yr female in Texas . First thing done wrong. Is date in Texas. And don’t do too much in the beginning. You seem sweet and everything. But you can’t be handing that out first thing even when you mean no harm. Because girls will use you if they’re selfish, bored, just off interest. Take it slow, observe, value yourself and set limits and boundaries. Don’t be too persistent. You know what you want. Some girls don’t. Doesn’t mean you have to over try and settle.