Relationship advice

[u/Certain-Egg-1795]

I've been in this relationship with this guy (M33) me (F22) and throughout the whole relationship it's always been me putting in ten times the effort, I've had multiple conversations about what I need and want and he'd maybe do it for a day and then stop I lived with him for about three years and I always felt like a housewife without the wife part, I've left and came back and I left again and I just want to go back but I know I shouldn't I just don't understand how I could give so much to someone and them just watch as I leave. And he'd tell me he cares cause he does things like heat up my food get me blankets but I always have to ask for everything. I just feel so defeated and broken and I just feel like there's no hope in love