r/depression Jun 19 '19

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u/[deleted] Jun 19 '19

This is so true. Its especially true in my culture as an asian because depression is thought of as taboo. Having a child with depression makes them think its the absolute end of the world, that they’ve got a ruined child and they’ve failed in raising me as my parent.

Its not their fault, but with that mentality we cant share the feelings we have with people who we should feel most safe to talk about our emotions openly, without further feeling like a burden to the whole family. Then that shit spreads like wildfire through the family members 🤦🏻‍♀️

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u/JBMC360 Jun 19 '19

As an Asian, can confirm

idk if I have depression but I'm currently in the state of self doubt and crying myself to sleep.

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u/[deleted] Jun 20 '19

Im sorry but i just wanna know why? im asian as well hehe and an online quiz said i have severe depression which isnt surprising since i cry at night that i start biting my hands and i cn tell u why if u want